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I started miscarrying today...

I started miscarrying this morning.  I had low HcG levels, so I knew it was a possibility, but I still held out hope.  I feel so lost and pained over this loss even though I was only 5 weeks.  I feel like I'm grieving a death...I am just beside myself.  Any advice on how to grieve?  I don't know what to do with myself...
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Thank you for the kind words and sharing your stories.  You all have no idea how much it helps.  Knowing the pain I feel right now, my heart aches for every one of you that have gone through this.  You must all be such strong women.  Congratulations to those of you who have gotten pregnant...such a beautiful blessing.  I hope I will be blessed with another baby soon.  But I will never forget the little one that never made it...
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I had a miscarriage at the end of November, and got pregnant again the middle of December. I will be 32 weeks on sunday. It was sad for me too. I will pray for you
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I miscarried in February and I felt awful.  I cried all the time. You have to allow yourself to grieve the loss of a life! Don't keep it all bottled up inside either. Find someone you can talk to. My Dr wanted me to wait 2 months before trying get again so I signed up to train for a half marathon!  I needed a goal and motivation and something to look forward to completing. It truly helped me. Now, I'm about 5 weeks pregnant again! You will get thru this.  Xoxo
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I had a miscarriage at five weeks and got pregnant two weeks later! I'm 14 weeks now and everything looks healthy. My mom told me when you miscarry it's because something was wrong with the baby. Only time will help and it is a real loss. Don't let people tell you otherwise because it was so early. I cried for days but it does get easier
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You are grieving a death. It's your baby. I had one last summer. It was very painful. I was able to get pregnant 3 months later and now our daughter is 5 weeks old. Don't give up hope. It will take time, but this will pass.
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I went through this in march I called my doctor for a script to help me through it he gave me zanax
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