I'M PREGNANT ONE MONTH AFTER A MISCARRIAGE

[Jen k.]

I HAD A MISCARRIAGE ON NOVEMBER 16TH.  IT WAS CALLED A CHEMICAL PREGNANCY BECAUSE I WAS ONLY ABOUT 4 1/2 WEEKS. (BASICALLY IT WAS LIKE GETTING MY PERIOD 5 DAYS LATER THAN NORMAL. NO CRAMPING AND NO D&C NECESSARY.) NOW IT IS A MONTH LATER ALL LAST WEEK HAD SLIGHT CRAMPING LIKE I WOULD BE GETTING A/F.  TOOK A TEST AND I'M PREGNANT!  I'M EXCITED, BUT SLIGHTLY NERVOUS THAT I COULD MISCARRY AGAIN. ALWAYS NERVOUS WHEN I GO TO THE BATHROOM THAT I MIGHT SEE BLOOD.  HAS THIS HAPPENED TO ANYONE ELSE?  ANYTHING I CAN DO TO INCREASE CHANCES OF NOT LOSING THIS ONE?

[lcrawford1308]

Sian lou- it is so frustrating. I deff know what your saying when you say everyone around u is pregnant. That is me to. My sister-in-law just had a baby boy n my other sister in law is due soon. My b friend just had her baby and another one just found out she preg. Plus 6 ppl @ my work r preg. The sad thing is ive been trying for 8yrs and all that happen to me was a miscarriage. Im so sad n hurt n it just doesnt wanna go away. Still no sign of period but still negative test.. Ugh very very frustrating. Especially when im trying to stay positive!! good luck hun!

[sian_lou]

lcrawford:its so frustrating, but i keep telling myself be positive and keep trying!there are so many people pregnant around me, and also so many trying, with some of those having ivf, a friend of mine has had ivf 3times with no luck, and now has fallen pregnant by natural means.....that gives me hope!it is so very hard, yesterday i cried all day, today seems to be a better day.....we can only keep trying.good luck xxx

[lcrawford1308]

sian lou: i am very very sorry for your loss. That is sooo horrible. It has been 2.5 months since my miscarriage and Im struggling sooo much. Today I was schedule for my period, which it didnt come so i took a test.... NEGITIVE! Story of my life. Maybe next month. Keep us posted :-)

[sian_lou]

Hi, iv very recently had a miscarriage on April 13th, two days before my long awaited 12 week scan.I feel like my whole world has fallen apart, but then to be told that i had a blighted ovum, which means my baby died very early on and my body still thought it was pregnant, had the bump, worst morning sickness ever etc.Can't get my head around it!Has anyone else had this happen to them??and as for waiting for a period before trying again, after reading all of ur stories, im ready to start tonight!:) x

[lcrawford1308]

judge: you sound like you could very well be prego but i would wait a week and take a test or even call a dr and go see whats going on. Keep us posted!! Kaayleigh: 16 & pregnant? Are you sure your ready for that? If you are I hope all works out for you and things turn out the way you want. I have no advice that would be helpful to you, im sorry.  Stacey: im in the same boat as you now. Im coming up on my period due date and i cant help but think im prego. Im cramping light in my left side of stomache. no spotting yet though. I have prego symptoms but sometimes i think its all in my head cuz me n hubby have been trying for 8yrs. We got prego once and miscarriage on valentines day of this yr. Your right, the pain is still there and seems to hurt more n more as the days go on. I wish u all the best of luck. Keep us all posted...we need success stories to give people Faith and Hope..

[stacey1212]

hi everyone
i mc the 24th of feb i was 10 weeks and 4 days.
me and my partner had bein trying for 4 years an nothing happened i had test done an they all came bk normal. in january my mom got me 2 do a preg test just for fun cus i was always doin them i did the test an it came bk positive i was over the moon and shock at the same time i couddnt believe i was finally going 2 be a mommy it was amazing my partner was at work so i called him we was so excited.
i had bleeding all the way through they put it down 2 a hematomer in my womb they sed baby would be fine but on thursday the 24th i was rushed 2 a and e with bad abdominal pain and very heavy bleeding i passed my baby in the waiting area as the nhs are so laid bk they didnt see me fast enough i no they couldnt have stopped it but at least i wouldnt have bin front of so many ppl.
it now 2 months on an the pain of wot i went though is still there
i was on and off bleeding as everythink came away natrually we have had sex on many ocations since as they told me i could try wen ever i felt ready.
i am now spotting very light but proper blood and have slight crampin in my left side.
i really wanna no if i am but my period anit even due yet and i have heard a test strip may not show even if i am what do u all think???????