Missed Miscarriage at week 9

[Bul2]

Hi,

Everything was going good, until 8 week, when we had an first ultrasound and we heard heartbeats, then out next appointment was on end of week 11 so we went and then got shocked after getting bad news that no heartbeats, but in between 9-11 week I never had any kind of discharge or blood clot etc, nothing was going good, but I can say I start loosing my pregnancy symptoms.
so now I think I had a missed miscarriage, and now our next appointment is on 01/10 to setup D&C if it will not come out naturally.

Now that was my sad story, but now I have a questions:

-> is there any other way to let that come out except above, like any kind of medications or anything,
if anyone knows about any kind of herbal things please let me know.
--> now after naturally or D&C treatment how long it will take body to come back to normal so we can start again?

me and my husband are very scared for next miscarriage if we start early or something, this was our first pregnancy. and we dont want to take a chance.

Thanks all for helping me and others.

good bless all.
-B

[angelstar99]

Its hard especially whens its your first, your body has to be strong, good immune system, and good with folic acid, people seem to forget those healthy vitamins that our babies need for growth. U got to protect yourself from sickness and disease at all cost but naturally, there are alot things that are not safe for us during pregnancies, especially dish liquids that we commonly take for granted, preventing us from getting pregnant and helping us lose our children from within. If my child didnt do her science report, i would never found out, why i couldnt get pregnant or stay pregnant enough to produce a child. They were using a chemical as a cleaning agent that causes miscarriages, but the consumer does not know of this, and maybe stil doesnt know.

[Bul2]

Thanks for your answers. I feel good now.

[Scout8601]

I'm really sorry.  I don't know of anything to help go naturally except the pill the other poster mentioned.  I had to have a D&C with my first miscarriage.  It was pretty much pain free.  And recovery was very quick.  As far as trying again, after the D&C my doctor told me to wait 3 cycles, but I think that was more for my emotional well being.  Most women say their doctors tell them to wait one cycle.  I think it's to make sure the uterine lining has time to build back up after the scraping done with the D&C.  

I know you will be scared of having another miscarriage but really I think most women go on to have healthy pregnancies after a loss.  Again, I'm really sorry.

[MMiles27]

Hi, I am so, so sorry for you. I'm about 3 weeks past my miscarriage. I went in for a routine ultrasound at 16 weeks and there was no heartbeat. I had absolutely no idea as I had no bleeding or anything. But my pregnancy symptoms did subside during the week my baby was no longer alive. My doctor gave me Misoprostol, I was supposed to take it for 4 nights (inserted vaginally, 8 tiny pills) and then I was scheduled for a D&C monday morning. Well I only did one treatment of the pills on sunday night because I just couldn't do it before that and within 8 hours I was at the hospital and I delivered my baby naturally. I didn't have to do the D&C. My doctor told me that I could start trying again after one cycle if I was ready for it. I think they tell you to wait one cycle so they can date your next pregnancy better. I do believe though that if you have a D&C you may have to wait longer because they take alot out of you. But that is just what I think. I guess you could ask your doctor about the  Misoprostol but be prepared, it was the worst pain I have ever experienced, make sure you aren't alone and that you can get to the hospital quickly (we drove ourselves and hit every red light possible) I talked to my doctors office this week and said that the idea of being pregnant again scares me, but she told me they could set it up (more ultrasounds etc.) to make it less nerve wracking. I hope some of this helped. Take care of yourself and again, I am so sorry you are going through this.