PLEASE someone help me

[tamtam305]

As u all know i had a D n C on 22nd April 10, it went good no complications at all I WAS 6 WKS 5 DAYS , phewwww
its driving me nut as i dont know when im going to ovulate again can anyone tell me roughly when u ovulate after a d n c , i have been doing the ovulation tests at home and they have all been neg and ive been doing them since monday 3 days after the bleeding stopped, any info from other people would be good anything
IM GOING NUUUUTTTTS NOT KNOWING XXX TAM

[tamtam305]

its been awsome having all the kids, i want 2 more hopefully i will get another girl if i get a girl next it will be my last but if i get 2 more boys then its the way its ment to be, lol i dont watch much tv at all hahahaha, my husband is 38 n im 35 so we have lots of time left !! we go over seas every yr and its awsome to  have that break from the kids, its important we have our time together n we go away for valintines, anniverserys, bydays ect, they fight like all kids but they are awsome with helping by doing their chores daily so that is a added bonus.... its so good seeing them grow up together as we r still young enough to enjoy our lives too eg like our trips away with NO kids lol, i wouldnt change it for the world Xxxxx tam

[rccresswell]

oh my gosh!!!!!  You've definately been busy.  I am not going to moan about a hard day again lol!!!!!!!!  How many more children do you want?  How did you find them growing up together?  I want mine close as well.  I hope I am not getting too personal.  

[tamtam305]

mick is 16 boy
johnna 15 girl
brendan 13 boy
bailey 11 boy
joshua 10 boy
xavier 6mths boy
phewww lol

[rccresswell]

Lol!!!!!!  I don't know if mine are at 0 completely but I am so sick of going to the doctor.  I went a few times while I was pregnant because I had thrush.  At first I as scared I miscarried because of the thrush because during when I had the first treatment that was the same week my son passed.  I asked my doctor about it and she said that it wouldn't of caused him to pass but next baby no!!!!! thrush treatments lol.  

I think with ttc my husband and I are going to se ehow wego.  I think it is easier said than done because when you want something you stress out but we are going to try it.  With my first two I fell pregnant after 6 months of trying and with Ethan we decided to try again and I was pregnant that month.  I hope that happens again!!!!!

You're not mad!!!!!  Hopefully you ovulate soon and fall pregnant sooner.  I have read that your body is all out of whack after a miscarriage so when you think you are ovulating you are not.  I'm having period like pains at the moment but I'm not sure if I am ovulating or getting more period.  I guess we will find out in a week or so.  

How old are all of your kiddies?

[tamtam305]

i have had a m/c befor yes when i was younger and have then gone on to have 5 mor children after that, this mmc has come after the birth of my 6th child.  i had very bad morning sickness 24/7 untill i was 18 weeks i had minor morning sickness with the baby i just lost, i took a preg test b4 and it was neg too not that i expected it not to be but its driving me nut waiting so my hcg levels must be 0 ?? what do u think butttttttttttttt lol i also took a ovulation test also but it says neg too so geeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee where am I at, i bought my tests online at a real good price so i can sit here for weeks n weeks n test all day lol im just bloody mad but hey love it .. lol xxxtam

[rccresswell]

i took a pregnancy test last night and it came back as negative so i assume the hcg levels have gone down.  fingers crossed we do get pregnant again soon.  Was this your first miscarriage?  When I was pregnant with my third (Ethan) I thought pregnancy was a piece of pie - boy was I wrong.  I was very sick during the first few months which I am told means you have a higher chance of a heallthy baby - boy was I wrong!!!!!  I am looking forward to trying again eventually and it will be great to keep in contact.

[tamtam305]

of course add me as a friend, and if i can be of any help with anything please ask,ive got 6 kids so ive plenty of practice lol... best of luck n i'll hopefully be letting u know soon that we r expexcting again fingers crossed. i went for my hcg levels to see were they r 0 or still comming down..... xxxtam

[rccresswell]

lol
it means aunt flow your period.  I didnt know what it meant either until i looked it up lol so i thought i might as well use it now that im in the know haha.
My son measured 10 to 11 weeks when I miscarried naturally.  I had a sore back, extensive bleeding, my waters broke and there he was - so precious!!!!  We are getting him back soon so we are going to bury him in a pot plant.  I'm sure some people think we are crazy to have him in our house but I couldn't bare to have it any other way.  We named him Ethan.  My husband and I have decided to ttc again but not, if that makes sense.  We don't want the added pressure of trying again so we just wanted to see how things go.  I have a 3 year old and a 1 year old so they are keeping me busy at the moment. I wish and I am positive I will be pregnant again in the near future so we will have to keep each other informed lol.  Is it ok if I add you as a friend?

[tamtam305]

i should have been 11 wk 5 days when i had my mmc but bub only measured 6 wk 5 days, it is and always will be hard, a loss is something i believe a woman never gets over fully in her heart, im thinking of the baby everyday and i guess it a little easier for me as i have a 6 mth old baby whom gets me threw it, i still shead a tear now n then i dont hide how i feel for anyone.
I am ttc again yes and i feel in my heart that its right for me, yesterday we can not change but tomorrow maybring happiness, i will never be able to replace my lost baby they r not replaceable in any way, but to move forward i can, it helps me as ive planted a red rose bush in my garden in memory of my baby and i can watch it bloom and see it blossm when ever i wish, if u r finding it hard try something like me, believe it or not it does help and u r not mad its a healing process and we all have different ways of doing that. please let me know how u r and im on most days ok . xxxtam
many ladys say AF what is this ??? lol  soz im new to all the comp  wording  ;-)

[rccresswell]

Hi tamtam305
This has nothing to do with your question but I noticed you had a miscarriage on april 22nd.  I had one on the 13th of April, I was 14 weeks along.  How are you coping?  I am finding as I am coming up to my af I am getting depressed all over again.  Are you ttc again?  How do you get to that milestone where you start ttc again?

[tamtam305]

i would if i could but he is on holidays n i dont wanna go to his off sider !! thankyou anyway.xxxtam