goin through miscarriage right now

[ravngirl07]

This is my second miscarriage one being on new years day of this year. And got the news today that my hcg levels were dropping again. I was 4 weeks with the first and almost 5 weeks with this one. I'm having a hard time with this I have 3 healthy children 9,4, and 2 never really had any problems with my first but my second child I was on work restriction and my 3rd worked for 7 months then has him 5 weeks early all were by csection I can't have babies naturally :( my doctor told me that it was to soon to have a baby with my first miscarriage which I don't understand when it has been 2 years since I had my son. She told me to wait til july and ttc again well that didn't happen I got pregnant again but lost it to. My doctor seems like she don't even care aren't there ways to stop it. I feel like there is something wrong with me now. Why won't god give me another baby. Why does he keep taking them from me now?

[ravngirl07]

Sry to hear about ur loss. My doc has no explaination for my miscarriage in jan and is pretty sure this one is from getting pregnant to soon. She wants me to wait 6 months until I try to get pregnant again but I don't want to. I'm getting older I'm 27 and married and have 3 children I want one more I have never had a problem getting pregnant and goin full term exept for my last son born 5 weeks early. I have heard of women getting pregnant right after a miscarriage and having a healthy pregnancy so why wait 6 months?

[bobbikay]

Hi Rav, jus read ur post n its crazy I had a m/c new years of this year as well..First pregnancy First M/c...Im 25 my bf is 21...My Dr believes it was a blighted ovum....Andd I am now prego again..its 6 weeks since my last period. I really have a feeling its gna b another m/c. I shouldnt have gotten prego so soon but my dr never preacribed b any birthcontrol. My first apt is this coming Monday so im sure it will tell me if I am or not. I dnt have many prego systoms either soo that scares me. Pretty much *****

[trying43]

Its not your fault sometimes there is something wrong with the egg, implantation failure, genetic defects, nothing you can control.  I would advise you get another dr because it seems yours is not the right one for you.  I am sorry this happened.  Good luck to you.