late miscarriage at 16 weeks please help!

[srb150]

Hi, I had a miscarriage on the 21st Dec 2012, at 16 weeks as my water broke. But I can't work out why its happened, I haven't seen da docs yet. I have lupus which was very well controlled but had protien in my urine, 3+ with normal bp. I had a scan the day before a doppler and doc said everything was perfect. I mentioned dat I had a dull pain in da centre of my lower abdominal for a few days and since da day before I was leaking a bit before I got to da toilet. She assumed it was an infection, checked me n nothing. So I went home stress free, next day am at the loo and pop goes my water and so does my first pregnancy n baby.
Sorry post is so long I've tried to keep it short.

[veronicamommysoon]

Thank you :) we will. Add me on fb if you want ***@****

[srb150]

Thanks Veronica, yea we'll support each other and same here if you need a chat or just want to get some weight off you know where to find me. I wish you all the best and keep me upto date with your success:).

[veronicamommysoon]

If you ever need to talk to someone I know that it gets harder and people always tell us is going to be ok and sometimes they dont understand our pain. Im here and we could support each other :) I am going to start trying next week. I have you in my prayers too. I wish you the best ♡

[srb150]

I wish you all the best with that and pray your pregnancy is successful this time. I'm still bleeding and waiting for the green sign from the docs to stray trying again. If am blessed again I think I'll live in fear till am holding a crying baby in my arms.

[veronicamommysoon]

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[veronicamommysoon]

What my doctor told me what that they should give you any pain medicine only Tylenol.  According to her I was having a uti and it wasn't like that I gave a urine sample but my doctor showed me the urine test and it was normal. That was at the ER not my regular doctors. I understand your pain is supper hard to go trough this. Im now getting better to be able to get pregnant again. Im supper scared because im afraid this is going to happen but I pray that I can have a healthy babe.

[srb150]

Am sorry Hun, I don't understand why they gave you morphine knowing your pregnant. Is morphine known to harm babies in the womb? Did they check your urine for uti or just presumed? OMG am sorry am questioning you so much, but I can't help it I just need to get to root of things and its so fustrating when you cant. I hate not knowing why this has happened to my baby:(.

[veronicamommysoon]

It was my doctors negligence she gave me medicine for a uti when I didn't had one. Also she gave me morphine that my babe couldn't tolerate and it make me have a misscariage.  I really want a babe :(

[srb150]

Am so sorry to hear that, I know how it feels and what your going through. Do you know why and what happened?

[veronicamommysoon]

I had a misscariage at 17 weeks and 5days.  I was having back pain and I went to the doctor and she told me everything was fine to relax. I went home and around 10pm I was having the same pain & I got to the Er and they told me that it was a uti giving me morphine and at 5am I started bleeding and I lost my babe. It was my first :( nov 18, 2012 im so sorry ♥