miscarriage

[lilbit0922]

How do you deal with a miscarriage?

[beautifulmum]

I hear you all it has only been 11 days since i lost my only son, at 20 weeks baby was only about 15weeks dont know how long he was gone for before they knew.  
i just want to say i too am ready again i need to be pregnant again i miss that so much i had it for 20 weeks then it is gone with nothing but pain to show.  
i am also at the point to wait for bleeding to stop.
can anyone tell me how long after bleeding to stop you are fertile doc said some womans bodies it is like a period so 14-16 days. so for me that would mean this weekend coming would be a good time to start.
gonna try this weekend anyways what can it hurt doctor told me anytime now i am good to go.

[lilbit0922]

yeh i had a d&c done on the 26th! i am still bleeding waiting on it to stop so i can try again!!

[Ellenhall85]

I naturally lost my baby on the 19th April :( I really want my baby I know I won't get that one back but I would like to be pregnant again . I'm just waiting for my bleeding to stop , has urs stopped ? I take it you ad a d&c ?

[lilbit0922]

I am ready to start trying again also when did u have ur d&c done?

[Ellenhall85]

My doctors have told me when your emotionally ready and to wait for at least one cycle.. I'm just going to start as soon as my bleeding has stopped. I'm coping better now and I know being pregnant again will help me move on.

[Kayannaboo]

You just grieve, it is a loss and its just as hard as any others. Talk to someone about how you are feeling.



Your body needs time to heal and you need to discuss with your doctor every aspect of your body as it relates to pregnancy that there is. He/she would also be able to give you info on when to ttc.


Anna

[lilbit0922]

How long after ur miscarriage can u ttc again?

[Ellenhall85]

Grieve. Just cry when you want ... Talk about it to family and close friends. I know its hard and some days I still find it hard but its getting easier and it will for you.