pregnancy loss

[mariebrass1]

hi im new to hear.. but ive just lost my baby a week ago, my waters broke at 18 weeks and i had a bad infection so i had to give birth to him ive never had to go through anything lie this i just cant stop thinking about it its absolutly killing me i just dont no what to do x

[MableMouse]

Im so sorry for your loss.. I've had a miscarriage, but I was only 9+5 I didn't even see my baby, and it was my first pregnancy. But I do know how awful it is to have someone who's very close to you in your pregnancy I had a friend who was exactly a week behind me in her pregnancy. I stopped talking to her.. Blocked her number/Facebook. It was just to hard hearing her complain about morning sickness/back pain/heartburn, ect. Even harder seeing her post ultrasound pictures and what not.. She now has a healthy 5 month old son. I started TTC as soon as I stopped bleeding. But I got the all clear from my doctor. And now Im 36 weeks pregnant with a healthy baby girl. Don't rush into anything, make sure you're healthy both mentally and physically. I wish I had of let myself heal more mentally because pregnancy makes you emotional at the best
times. But when your grieving it can become quite consuming. I wish you all the best and if you'd ever like to talk to me you can.(:

[mariebrass1]

than you for your comments i no im not the only one who is going through this.. and im ever so sorry for your losses life can be so cruel but i also have a 3 year old little boy who i know needs me and that is making me get through each day.. i also have two friends that are pregnant and we were all quite close with our pregnancies and that just makes it harder knowing that im not pregnant anymore

[katmoo06]

I lost a baby at 19weeks also had to push it out but was so devastated I didn't want to hold it or even see it. That is a big regret for me!! But it is now 3years later and I am 36weeks prego with a healthy baby boy. Believe me I know it hurts but u really need time to heal physically and emotionally.  It took me awhile but it does hurt less and less with each passing day. You will never forget this baby he will be with you forever but let that be a good thing. Celebrate the time you had with him instead of  feeling regret, it takes awhile but just be strong you can do it.

[4Nheaven1here]

I have many Angels in heaven. I lost my son at 18 weeks as well and I also had to push him out without the benefits of taking him home. I felt so empty after I lost him and all I wanted to do was get prego agin to feel that love and bond. So I waited the 3 months and got prego again. This time I went in to early labor at 27 weeks. My lil girl had a massive infection and only lived about 10 minutes. She died in my arms. This is the worst pain a morher can ever have and it doesn't ever really go away. With time it just doesn't hurt so much. My advise wait until you are healed at least a lil emotionally. Don't jump the gun like I did. I know it's hard but you have to mourn the loss of your baby first. Im so sorry for your loss.

[arnitia]

Im sorry for your loss sweety. My inbox is always open.  

[RebeccaRaee]

Wow Hun, I'm so sorry! If you need to talk, I know you don't know me but I'm  here

[MKristine]

Yeah, you might. I hope you feel better soon though. And I'm here if you need to talk.

[mariebrass1]

i know i think i will probably feel a little different after a few weeks will just have to see how it goes but thanks anyway

[MKristine]

I don't think that's wrong. Everyone copes differently and that might be how you cope. Though I wouldn't try so soon, I would talk to your doctor about a grace period to make sure you're healthy and ready to try again.

[mariebrass1]

thanks but all i can think about is trying again is it wrong to feel like that

[MKristine]

I'm really sorry to hear about your loss, hun. Saddly to say there's not much to do other than let God and time take their roles. I'm here if you'd like to talk.