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I recently had a m/c. I was only 5 weeks. And only knew for 4 days. my bleeding only lasted  a week. (like a normal period) The reason for my m/c was because my blood type is rh negative. (which i did not know) and treats the baby as an infection and makes me m/c. I got the rhoGHAM shot. the dr told me that it wouldnt help with this baby. but it will if we ttc again. he told me to wait one cyle to ttc. and I just feeel like I cant. but I am so scared b/c if i do get pregnant again, i dont want my chances to be higer for a m/c because i didnt wait till my next cycle. i didnt need a d/c. are there any success stories out there about people gettting pregnant after a m/c? (by two weeks) I know a month seems not that far away. but for me its seems like a decade. so much love grew for my baby. and before i could even get the feeling of being happy i lost it. please help :(
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1287412 tn?1272423369
love i feel anything is possiable ok, i had a d n c a week n half ago and have started trying now, nature will do what it needs to ok and like all things it may not happen over night but it will happen, just relax and dont put so much preasure on ya self ok.. relax and enjoy and the reward will be wonderful im sure. its hard to wait but a nurse told me there is no need to wait, alot of people are told to wait to deal with emotional issues only ok. and some others say they like u to wait to have a period because of dating well they say u use ya m/c date for that.. im only talking on what ive reshurched love n things ive taken in from this forem and others ok........
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1299140 tn?1317262195
I relate to you so much because the emotions are still there and the only way they can be fixed is with a baby. I hope and pray that it works out for you. I see alot of women on here who have been through the same, so there is always hope.
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thank you so much. it does make it easier knowing that i am not the only who wants it right away. it was a week today that I lost my baby. and I am gonna ttc here soon! i will keep this updated! and I wish you the best of luck! my fingers are crossed for everyone. This is nothing anyone should have to go through. but as i see it more people do then i thought. and it makes me feel im not the only one.
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Thank you! Sometimes it feels like your the only one out there who feels like this! I Hope the best for you! We need to keep our fingers crossed!
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1299140 tn?1317262195
Please dont feel helpless. I just had a miscarriage at 4 weeks and I wanted this baby so bad. I dont know the reason for my miscarriage but I want to try again soon. I hope it works out for you!
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