when will this end??

[ambercuevas]

hey just want some1 to fill me n on how long im supose to feel this way @ a miscarriage?? i cant even b @ another baby without cryin worse than the baby.. i feel so depressed n worthless n i hate this feeling b/c i am a very outgoing person n i laugh 24/7. its just not me..it hurt me deep down nside n i just want the feeling to go away. mayby @ we concieve like we been tryin 2 then i will feel better @ the whole thing. can sum1 plz tell me whats goin on??

[ArmyPrincess819]

I'm so sorry for your loss. There is no time line on when you may beging to feel better. It's truly different for each of us. Joining our forum was a great step towards finding some peace. How about seeing a counselor? There are professionals out there that focus on m/c and grief. You may find that to help. Grief is a terrible road to walk down and it can be quite bumpy. The road can start to feel like it goes on forever.  Our bodies need time to heal it take 3 or more cycles for everything to regulate. Our general health may be the affected the most. It's very important to have a follow up app w your dr to ensure that your body is healing and that there are no signs of any complications. I wish you the best and I hope sooner than later this part of your life is just a distant memory. I'm here if you need to talk. Feel better soon!

AP

[Eirlis]

I'm so sorry you're going through this. It's perfectly normal to grieve the loss of your baby. I was very depressed for around 2 months after my first miscarriage. Since I had around a month to prepare for my second miscarriage, the depression wasn't as bad but it still took a good 2 - 3 weeks to feel like myself. I still get sad when I'm around babies and visibly pregnant friends, but I don't get teary anymore.

Don't rush yourself or beat yourself up for feeling the loss -- you need to grieve and get all of that emotion out. Unfortunately, it's a process that takes time. One day soon you'll wake up and it won't be so bad. Hang in there.

-Eirlis