TTC this month???

[mapes10]

Who out there has dealt with the loss of a child recently and would like to join a happy post for those TTC???  I think so many of us need something to look forward to and are always looking for somewhere to turn.  I don't know about you, but sometimes it's hard to go to the pregnancy forums if you've had a miscarriage and aren't pregnant yet.  I know we have a million different views about when to try again and what will help us have healthy pregnancies, so let's just get together and wish loads of baby dust for everyone else:)  Have a great day, and good luck to everyone!!!

[Dani711]

Thankyou for contacting them.  Well, as you said, we are all here for each other anyway so as long as it is ok to still use this forum for the TTC as well and support each other than that is what we will do!!  Thankyou nunu!!

[nunu1977]

I just got a reply about starting a "TTC after miscarriage" forum. Their reply is as follows  

We're seeing a lot of posts about TTC inside the Miscarriages community. I just added it as a topic in there since you're right, there is a lot of activity about it. Right now, the Miscarriages community, which is brand new, is doing great and we'd rather not break out a part of it and risk hurting it. I hope adding the topic helps though as that is absolutely the place to discuss this, as opposed to the Pregnancy community.

MedHelp

  
   Maybe once other miscarriage topics increase they will be able to start a TTC after miscarriage. even though I would like the new forum I still am thankful that there are so many ladies out there that are willing to come together and support each other and give advice even though we don't even know each other. Thanks you to you all!!!!!

[crystal73122]

My hubby and I are trying again this month after a mc. We got the go ahead from the doc, and will be ready to go in a couple of days! Wishing luck, and baby dust, and hope some will be sent our way as well!

[mapes10]

I too am sorry for your loss.  I find tremendous comfort with the other ladies here, and I hope they help you too.  The TWW is the worst.  I am there too.  We just miscarried Aug 6, but it took 6 weeks for AF to return.  Hopefully everything works this month and you get a bfp soon.  Good luck and lots of baby dust.  Keep us posted.

[Dani711]

Welcome!  I too am confused as to where to chat and share problems.  I go to the pregnancy forum which is helpful but there are so many diverse posts there.  We have been TTC since our loss in April and I just got AF again.  I just want this so bad and it is taking so long.  There seems  to be alot of us here latley going through the same things and we are all here for each other.  So once again welcome and so sorry for your loss, and lets all get through this together.

[bam1014]

I think this is a great idea.  It's so hard to be in the pg forum, when you have the emotional struggle from the transition of m/c to ttc.  My DH and I decided to start trying again right away.  I m/c on Aug 16th and AF came right on time 4 weeks later.  I did OPK's this time, so I'm pretty confident that I ovulated and we BD best we could during that window.  I'm now in the TWW, but still don't have the heart to go back to the fertility forum (where I was hanging out, as we TTC'd for 2 years).

[CacyMichelle]

I had been trying to get pregnant for a year, and miscarried a week ago (Sept. 24) I am so hopeful that it won't take me as long this time around. I have a really good feeling that we will conceive again soon! Good luck to everyone.

[Nicole424]

I would also be interested in TTC. I miscarried on Labor Day weekend. I tried to get pregnant again before my next AF. No l;uck. I have it now. I haven't had a period in 5 months and don't miss it a t all. When I conceived I wasn't trying at all, but now i am ready and realllllly want a baby!

[wanting4#1]

I don't know if this helps - but there is a FERTILITY forum here that is wonderful!  It's about ttc and they are incredibly supportive and wonderful! I've been on it for years! :)

[mapes10]

Thanks to everyone.  I really hope this works because I know that talking about everything makes it easier to deal with.  My DH is great, but it is impossible to understand unless you're a woman who has been through a miscarriage and are now trying to move on.  We should be ovulating within the next week (hopefully) so maybe this could be the start of a good month for everyone.  Have a fantastic Friday!!!

[Yvonne_B]

That is a terrific idea!  I miscarried in June and am ttc again.  I'm sure it would be easier for women in the same boat to understand the fears, struggles and questions I am having.

[nunu1977]

I am waiting to her back from the people that run the website as to how to get this started. Ill keep you all informed.

[jessicasj77]

I'm in! We miscarried on the 12th and already trying again. I hope we get prego before AF comes. I don't think I can bear a period. I'd love a place to go to share concerns, happy thoughts and feelings about trying to conceive again. :) Keep us posted through this post as soon as you know :)

[mommytobeagain]

that would be GREAT nunu!!! i'm in as well!!!

[nunu1977]

I will look into it and see what i can do.

[Dani711]

How do we start that post?  Im in.  My child should have been born in about two weeks and it is kind of a hard time...but we are still trying to concieve again and are hoping it will happen soon!  Then even when we finally get pregnant again there will be so many concerns and worries that I will have and would love to talk about.  so how do we make a new post???

[mapes10]

I am excited to know that there are other ladies out there who are feeling the same way.  One of the only good things that has come out of our miscarriage is that I have had so many women that I have known for years come up and tell me about their miscarriages.  Many of these women I never even knew had a miscarriage, but they have given me so much strength and hope.  I wish you all of you the best of luck!!!

[vicki2583]

I had a miscarriage one week ago.  My husband and I are trying to move forward.  I think that is a great idea.  I would like to ttc as soon as possible.

[mommytobeagain]

i agree with both of yall. we are in the same boat as yall. i had a miscarriage 3 months ago and now ttc. that would help out a ton with all the questions i have!!!

fantastic idea!!

[nunu1977]

Great idea! I totally agree about it being difficult to go to the TTC forums after just having a miscarriage! Both my husband and I are wanting to try again now but wonder if we should wait. would be nice to talk to others in the same boat.