Something to remember

[MCBCON]

No matter how old or sick we become we are our children's parents.  Our kids will look to us for reassurance and love no matter grown up they think of themselves.

When we are struggling with our difficulties our children are also doing so.  We must remember we are the adults in their lives.  The focus as a parent should remain on healing our families of our misfortunes.  If we can do this than our focus is where it is most healthy for everyone.

[wiggles94]

What you both say is so true.

Sometimes we get so wrapped up in what we are going through that we forget that those who love us are suffering right along with us, and they may need a shoulder as well.

I firmly believe that no matter what we go through, if love surrounds us (no matter where that comes from) everything will be OK.  Is this faith in a higher power that is transformed into faith in those we love?  I don't know.  I always wonder and marvel over things that are bigger than we are.  And sometimes when things get out of control, faith can see us through.

[MCBCON]

I heartily agree.

It is difficult to say everything in one statement.

[Sparkysarah]

Something for us all to think about. I agree to a certain extent but would add that as parents we also have to be realistic. I beleive that the most important thing is to be honest and open in our relationships and that this is a two way thing.

We are not always able to heal our misfortunes and I feel that it is important to be realistic about our condition. Protecting our children and wrapping things in cotton wool is not necessarily helpful.  I hear that this is not necessarily what you are saying but children also have to learn to live with pain and sometimes they need to be aware of what we are experiencing as they may want to help.

We give our children roots and also the wings to fly and above all if they receive unconditional love this gives them the inner strength to face challenges ahead.

Sarah