The meningitis might have caused a viral infection of the spine, which would have created the problem with numbness and tingling. Just a guess!
Your menstrual cycle doesn't sound like a neurological problem. However, you do have some neurological symptoms. The question at this point is what's causing the problem.
Damage to the spine will cause the paresthesia you describe, so I would investigate to see if your spine is healthy. It could be nerve compression, lesion formation, or any number of things - so yes, I would go see the neurologist. Just to eliminate that as a possiblity.
My current PCP has recently ordered blood work to check everything from my liver to B12, ANA, blood sugar, inflammation and etc. He also ordered lower back xray and EMG test. I am scheduled to see him October 14 to discuss the results. I am thinking the next step would be for him to send me to a Neurologist. I also have a family history of Lupus my mom and two sisters have it.
Hello sounds like a lot. Have you seen a Neurologist? I am no Doctor and could not even begin to guess,
Alex