Betty, that neuro may be a specialist in MS. It doesn't sound like he is a specialist in Betty's MS. I'd look for someone who can listen to the answer after asking you a question.
I know it is hard to think about seeing yet another doctor. I do think you would benefit from doing an interview or two to find a neuro you feel comfortable consulting for the MS. The symptoms you are most concerned about at the moment can be from the MS, something else or some combo of causes.
You might want to look at the Health Page on making a time line though so you can be better prepared in the future and understand how MS may have been invading your life for longer than you first suspected. It's here:
http://www.medhelp.org/health_pages/Multiple-Sclerosis/The-Importance-of-the-Timeline/show/765?cid=36
Your GP might do fine managing your symptoms but I think you will need a specific neuro or MS physician for the MS because:
I don't think a neuro in a pain management practice will treat your MS. They are usually far too busy there and MS is outside their sub-speciality anyway. (It's different if your headache neuro treats your pain in a neurology practice.)
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I'm not sure your GP can/will prescribe Copaxone or high dose steroids (if they are ever needed to treat a flare).
Finally, look for a PT with specific neurologic or MS training/experience. They have speciality areas just like docs and nurses. More than a few hold doctorate degrees in the field. A therapist with special interest or certification in neuro conditions will be much better equiped to evaluate and treat MS. Specific stretching and therapies can - DO - help with tightness and spasms.
Night sweats? I get hot and sweaty sometimes at night. It happens during the day too because I'm very heat sensitive and control comfort by layering and unlayering while I'm awake. I don't think true night sweats that wake a person with fever and soaking wet sheets are a common part of MS.
Hint: New questions usually get the most attention if you start a new thread for them. Few (if any) members have time to re-visit threads or read every post. I think we tend to look at new topics and read question titles to see where we might be able to help.
Check out all the Health Pages to learn lots and lots about MS, the mix of emotions and reactions to the diagnosis and low to live through the symptoms. For an index of topics (three pages long!) go here:
http://www.medhelp.org/health_pages/list?cid=36&page=1
Keep asking questions and working toward wellness. Having MS does NOT mean you are destined to face a continual decline in function and increase in pain. Ups and downs? Sure, but I believe there can be many good days ahead for you.
Mary