Valentine's Day Issues

[Rena705]

I just realized that today is my ONE YEAR anniversary of being sick.  It was one year ago today that I was diagnosed with Paratrigeminal Neuralgia and it all fell apart after that!  NO I AM NOT SITTING ON THE PITTY POTTY!  However, I am feeling more than just a little ticked off at my old boss and would like to send her a Valentine with an ink bomb in it..indelible ink would work just fine!!!

She asked me for my resignation minutes after I gave her a note from my Neuro stating I needed a few weeks off and the ball rolled downhill ever since then.......................

It's funny, I have such a Neuralgia pain in my head today and my eye is drooping like crazy and I feel like ****!  Obviously, in a WHOLE YEAR...not a thing has changed other than I have a new neuro that is STILL doing nothing for me and I am a year older!

Wait a minute, there is something new and wonderful in my life and that would be you, my friends on this forum!  I want to say thank you for all of your support and kindness and I want you to know that I was so close to the edge a few times that only you pulled me up by the bootstraps and kept me going!

SO, HAPPY VALENTINES DAY TO ALL OF YOU!  and thank you!

Lots of Hugs,

Rena

[Quixotic1]

Well, my ink bomb has to be a stink bomb, because it's going to my xH who is blind and wouldn't appreciate the stains.  He and I were married on Valentine's Day and it has been a day to forget since 1991.  I am getting over the revulsion for the day, but still cannot stand red hearts.

Rena - you were totally wronged, the very reason we passed the Americans for Disabilities Act.  What a terrible thing to go through!

Erica - Yes, revenge would be sweet, but short-lived.  There are many ways I could do damage to my X, but it's best if I just make sure our lives never touch again.  Toxic people are best avoided.  He remarried, so he's someone else's problem,

Q

[ELT]

   We do tend to meet some nasties, don't we?

   I dealt with an aquaintance last year.  I maybe shouldn't, she's a little, er, 'off'.  But, I had to.

   She was not being a good friend.  I calmed myself and told her what I thought.  I needed to get it off my chest.  I forgot she was a little hormonal, psychotic and bigger than me.  She owns a lawn maintenance (small) company.  (She 'inherited' it from her retiring father, and has two emplyees)  

   I went to the police when she followed me around town yelling things out her truck window at me.  They took a report from me, and if I had any other trouble, they would give her a waring.  They asked if I wanted them to talk to her.  I said, no, I figured I'd already angered psycho woman enough, I just wanted to make sure I could be assured of my safety, in the even of future difficulties.

   Unfortunately, tho I look for her around every corner, I've not run into her since, tho I used to all the time. I'd have liked reporting her.  Sigh, I can but wait.  LOL

  

[Rena705]

I've been called a lot worse than Reno honey! ha ha ha  

It's too bad that we live so far apart cause I think we would get along well!  I know I have to let the hate for that b***h boss of mine BUT I won't!  She did me wrong seriously and I hope that she get's good and sick someday and she is treated the same way!  The worst part is, she is a Registered Nurse but working in an office setting managing a home care company....gee I wonder why...I have imagined her in many settings but the best is seeing her smiling as she lowers some poor senior into an icy bath for kicks...she really is that cruel!!

Rena

[ELT]

   Forgot what I meant to say, before I posted.  Sorry, for the trigeminal stuff, not nice at all.  And I know exactly what u mean.  There are a couple, thankfully, so far, only a couple of ppl who I would like to send something to.  But, gotta wait til i get a dx.  Or I'll be reinforcing their attitude that I'm psychotic.  Sigh.  The wait is sooooo hard.

   Erica

[ELT]

   No, no, no, ask zilla, its not valentines day, its BIRTHday, lol lol

  By the way, good thing i edited your name, I called you reno, for a moment.

Erica