Hi, I'm 31 male. Had surgery for brain tumor. Not all of it was removed. I'm living in fear and anxiety that I only have a certain amount of time to live. I get so paranoid alot especially having mri's every 6 months. Now my neurologist says anxiety is ruining my life and wants me to take effexor and get my life back. I don't know how thats possible when I don't feel well 3 or 4 days out of the week. I suffer with my head being sore up to 72 hours in a row causing my left cheek and left sinus area to feel swollen. Makes it very uncomfortable and extra uncomfortable wearing safety glasses at work or glasses at home. Feel unsteady or off balance at certain times also.Getanxious,tired,angry,stressed and down too much too easily. I really don't want to suffer any side effects from this medicine not to mention become addicted and pay alot for it. I wish I knew how I could feel better and get my life back to normal especially since I have a 2 month old to help take care of. Any info on medicine or helping my symptoms or what my options are would be great. My neurologist wants me to see his psychiatrist soon so I dont know what I'm in for. Thanks everyone.