hey guys, I've posted a few times on different forums on this site and can't seem to find ppl who understand, hope you guys can help. Well I'm a 23 year old male and have this whole Idea that I think I'm gay, about a year ago I beat hocd, slowly with abit of help from antidepressants. For sure I told my self that was the first and last time I was ever going to deal with the topic, any who its come back.
So let me start off with saying that right now I'm having trouble as well & I am experiencing many of the hocd symptoms, like the questioning "am I gay?", I definitely feel like I know how to beat it but there's is one problem- I am depressed due to returning issues of not being able to keep a simple job so my self esteem is low. When I was a kid I had 2 same sex experiences but it was done with an innocence of mind, after that I began to look at porn and I got hooked, it was all straight all the time. I wasn't ever really a popular kid through school so as far as girls went I could only imagine. Porn definitely gave me a place to escape but also hurt me cause I never experienced love. Last few years of my life things have changed, I am now possibly desensitized to the images of women & the depression has taken joy away from me as well as my libido. I don't know what to really do so the hocd is really the only thing My mind, I was seeing a girl who I did have sex with and I wanted To be with but I had no Feelings 4 her eventhough I was trying; Soon after hocd hit. I mean I have had the odd thought where I viewed the same sex in a sexual way b4 but I knew where I stood so I'd brush it off quick as if it were nothing.
So do u guys agree its hocd, Im just looking for reassurance, its just bothersome that it came back and I can't seem to be in a relationship cause I'm not used to being with someone or I jus havnt met the right one and I don't know what to do. I welcome any input from everyone & I believe I can help you with your hocd problems cause I did escape its grip, feel free to msg me - thnx!