Any advise would be great, I am about to commit a 17 year with severe OCD, germaphobic, she has a 4 month old. She has become a danger to her self as well as the baby, I am physically going to have to have her commited, and the baby cant go, she is going to completely lose it when I tell her this. I dont want to lie to her, but if i tell her ahead of time she will not go. What do i do?