Hello im a female and I had a similar problem. But I was a young slightly ignorant young girl. Look you are with male friends right? So There is no need to worry, you are not gay. I saw my friends vagina before and we didnt care because were both females and its not like females dont have them right? you are not gay nor have ocd. Dont worry about it! its the past and you cant let it effect you now because its not going to change ANYTHING.
Ok, I think that you need to evaulate WHY you looked at your friends penis . . . You have have come to the conclusion that you looked at your friends penis out of sexual desire . . . have you ever thought that you just wanted to look because you wanted to compare it with your own!! This is a very natural thing to do!! Or maybe by seeing your friend naked you will now know him completly and in his natural form (placing you above most people in his life)!! As for applying it to other men, everytime you look at them your fear drives to think why am i doing this . . . perhaps thats because you have never found the true answer so, you always question the only answer you have "Sexual Desire"!! So perhaps question WHY again now and replace it with some of the suggestions above and see if it keeps troubling you!! Good Luck and All the Best
why does everyone think it's so impossible to be attracted to both sexes? i'll never understand the big deal.
even if you were completely attracted to your friends penis...that still doesn't make you gay...it just means you like having sex with the opposite sex, but that you also find your friends penis attractive. as mjbrown said, sexuality is a continuum...it's not black and white. there are so many variants of sexual attraction that one shouldn't worry about what gender they're attracted to...only that they have a healthy physical attraction to the person they are with.
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Hiya mate, I can completely relate to what ur sayin. I myself think that I have HOCD. Just like you mate im big on sport, I play basketball 3 times a week, train at the gym alot ect. I also have a GF who i love and am attracted to. My HOCD started when I over heard my college teacher say to another member of the class that she thought i was gay. My first reaction to this was anger, at the thort of why she would make a comment like that. and then came the rest....why would she think im gay?......do i come across gay?.......and then the one that we all fear....am i gay. And just like u mate, ive looked at gay porn to see if i am aroused by it....and never am. but my head tells me that i am. Ive become so depressed by it, im scared to go to my basketball practices from the fear that I mite be attracted to another player. I dont like walkin down the street and looking at another male, incase i get attracted to him.....Its effecting my home life, my relationship with my GF. (I also fear that if i talk to my GF about it, she'll leave me) and effecting my job. Your not alone mate.
I wish you all the best, I hope it subsides for you.
It sounds like you are obsessing over this. If you were gay, you would probably know it by now. However, homophobia is often seen as a defense mechanism that protects against latent homosexuality. You don't say that you hate gay people, so this obsession you now have is probably just a manifestation of anxiety or OCD. Most researchers and psychologists don't measure sexuality as black or white - but rather on a continuum. Most people are on the heterosexual end... but it is a scale (few people are 100% exclusively heterosexual or homosexual). If you read about some of Kinsey's research, you'll see that most heterosexual people have had some kind of same-sex encounter at some point in their lives. This doesn't make them gay. Seeing your mates penis definitely doesn't make you gay. It might be helpful to talk to a therapist about why you are obsessing about this. It is likely due to an underlying anxiety disorder - rather than hidden homosexual attraction.
All the best..