staring at private parts of people even while talking to family members also

[ami_karn]

i am 22 yr old an engineering student......i have been suffering ocd staring for around 3 yrs....look whenever i am around the people or while talking to the people(friends or family members or anyone).....i usually look at their private parts and this makes me feel worst in front of the people.....and they also dont want to interact with me and ignore me everywhere......and due to this reasons girls not at all talk with me......i feel like that .....i wish i would never exist in this world :(.......
getting depressed more due to this.....plz help someone

[ocdresearch]

hello shaz good to hear you almost complitely cured, we would appriciate any advice of your cure

[Ahed55]

i have some problem i used to look privat parts all the time and every body  i tried many times to focus on face but i can only 30 minut can focus
now , im in the house watching tv playing play station no School no work, only waiting white sheet i live in norway any help please

[shaz2015]

Solution is there, just need to do some hard work. I had similar issue for few years but after consulting a psychiatrist I have significantly improved and now around 90% or more in control.

[Hjui]

Bro I also belong from a small place in India and suffering from the same problem . this *****. This ocd is destroying my social and family life. Now I think I have to go Delhi to seek psychiTrist

[JGF25]

Hi there.  Makstam467 I know you are young and have not seen a therapist but have you tried therapy Kappa?  This does fall under OCD.  Makstam467 have you talked to your parents about this?  

[makstam467]

I am 14 yeas old every since  I started puberty at age 12 I had this I'm not able comical with friends cry a lot feel like I'm depressed  and my men teacher and my women teacher alway cover there parts when talk to them . Help please

[Kappa321]

Is there anyone that has this that has found a solution..I suffer from this and have been for a few years..it's devastating,embarrassing,makes you want to live in a box,it's soo involuntary but it's a habit that keeps hopping beyond my control..it makes me uncomfortanle and causes me to have anxiety about being around people..i font want to start at any ones inappropriate. Areas but it happens.My family has noticed..I've quit great jobs because the staff noticed me starring at them or looking at them inappropriately..it's like when the body is covered I have no anxiety but as soon as some one sits next to me or talks to me and they have on pants my eyes are draw to there crotch no matter how I try to look them in the eyes pleeeeeease help me!!!!! I feel like my life is over..i wanted to kill myself a few times because of this..but then I thought of my daughter who's 10., I just want help..i haven't told any one but my husband about the starring but I really don't think he understands.. this is the main reason why I stay in isolation away from people...The starring at people inappropriately really kills me..i just want a doctor that will help this is real!! Ocd starring at genitals!! Embarrassing but I can't help it!!somebody anybody Help!!!!!!!!!

[Desperate83]

Dear Kappa, I have almost the same problem. I am also starring at people, especially males (I am a woman), and it is so embarrassing for me, since I have never been kind of girl who checks out other man. I am not starring at their private parts, but more in whole person., which is also very disturbing.I have a good husband and a wonderful daughter (7 years old). No matter, very young, old, middle aged, my eyes are involuntary moving to this person. Sometimes this also includes woman and kids. I am also not pervert, and I don't think about sex when I am doing this, I am just afraid, and try to stop, but I can't.And when people notice this, they are rejecting me,or laughing at me. I am unable to work, shift stores where I shop, I am embarrassed to go to the kindergarten to pick up my little girl. It has been like this for more than five years. I tried psychotherapy, medications, nothing helped. I am constantly thinking about killing myself, the only think that stops me is my daughter. I told my husband and my family, but they don't understand. I desperately need help. If you have found a way to stop with this please write me, even if you didn't ...