My girlfriend and PTSD

[DJ59inarizona]

My used to be girlfriend is 32. I am 59. She yells, rambles on incessantly, tells strangers her life story, and treats me like ****. We have been separated for 8 weeks now and she is pregnant with our child.

I moved from her home to an apartment 1 mile away, and on some rare days she is nice, and most others mean and spiteful.

Around last December I started to look for a place on line and she thought I was looking for a girl. NOT.
Just cannot stand the yelling and hitting.

I have asked her to forgive me so many times it is now not worth me saying so. Yesterday I went with her to do an errand out of town as she asked me to go, and then lashes out that I am too clingy. Cannot seem to find a happy place. Then she asks me do I want to call it quits? Or find another woman? Probably heard the latter  50 times in the last month. The cell phone rang so is this being prgnant talking or?????

She is not a forgiving person and changes attitudes like sand on the beach of life.

I believe it is time to let go even though I do love her. Loosing too much sleep.

Comments please.

[margypops]

I think your gut is telling you what to do, I am assuming you have had some discussions with her and have said you cannot live with this abuse, she sounds as if there are issues that need addressing professionally and some counselling is in order for her to get  handle on her behavior,.If this isnt possible then you will have to move on, ask for fathers rights and do that through the courts, so you will still be able to see your child , I am sorry ,life isnt fair is it, I think you know what you have to do.. Good Luck