I have a 21 month old son.....He is a handfull. This is my first kid, Im lost. I think hes too young for time out, but there are certain things that I ask him not to do, and I KNOW he understands me, and he just looks at me with the same little angry look I gave to my parents, and continues doing what he wants, sometimes he even laughs as he and looks at me as he does the things I have just asked him not to do....I cant just let him get away with it....But If I have to remove him from the situation every time, I feel like he'll learn that he doesnt have to listen until he HAS to. I want him to respect me, and I want him to want to listen.....Im so lost! Please help!