Dear Dad,
It sounds as if your son has several different symptoms that may be related, or they may not. Without getting more of a history and examining him, I can’t say for sure. However, I think that it would be a good idea to start with your primary care provider reviewing the history and examination, and maybe considering an ECG. The two most common reasons that we see for this complaint are either mild dehydration or an arrhythmia (abnormal heart rhythm). While awaiting his initial evaluation, I would make sure that he is adequately hydrated, with four 8-12 ounce glasses of fluid each day plus a salty snack. Also, he should not skip meals and should limit or eliminate caffeine. If this does not improve his symptoms, he may need to be further evaluated for an arrhythmia.
The cardiac history at birth that you describe is not clear to me. I don’t know if he had an arrhythmia at that time. I also don’t know what you mean by the muscle still forming and part of it needing to deteriorate. The heart is typically formed at birth, though there is a hole that all babies have that needs to close (patent foramen ovale, or PFO) and an extra blood vessel that needs to close (patent ductus arteriosus, or PDA).
Im not a doctor. The best thing to do is to play it safe and go get him checkedby a apediatric cardiologist. Get a full work-up. Listen to him, his symptoms. Hope everything turns out alright!