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I'm 36 at week 5 after trying for 7 years. With two miscarriages in the past I'm very nervous and anxious. With 1 failed IVF, while preparing for second IVF, I got pregnant naturally. Yesterday and today, I saw pink brown spots in my underwear. I heard this could be a normal sign. Trying to think positive but it's not as easy as it sounds. I need some positive energy from you guys...
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I miscarried prior to this current pregnancy. Iam 35 years old & now 22 weeks pregnant. But I spotted and cramped from week 5 through around week 8 & I was just already preparing for the worst, was horribly depressed & sad despite everyone telling me to stay positive and that my symptoms could be totally normal. Like I said, I'm now 22 weeks and no problems at all. Everything has gone well. So as difficult as it is, try really hard to stay positive. I wish you all the best.
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You will be okay just be positive n keep praying.
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I wish U the best of luck. But try not to stress it's not good. UR baby will be fine congrats
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Thank you so much DO2015!!
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I totally understand being anxious. I have lost two pregnancies. I am 4 weeks now and nervous about every symptom that might be out of the norm. I hear if you experience extreme pain or bleeding bright red, that might be bad. But the brown spotting is normal you may have it a few days. Try your best to take it easy, try to do something to get your mind off things..easier said then done I know. I am trying to figure healthy ways to relieve stress and anxiety. Reading, walking, talking with friends, hobby, etc. Praying if that helps too! I am sure everything will be okay!
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Thank you guys... I'm waiting for Monday to go visit the doctor. I came to Korea to get ivf (before i found out that i got pregnant naturally) n left my hubby in LA. My hubby is not very supportive to overcome this anxiety n possible depression (I can't stop crying n wake up every morning with nightmare). Thank you... I feel much better reading your posts.
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Have you called your doctor?  There is no substitute for medical advice
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Dont think negatively  think positive, dont worry everything will be all right
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If you believe in God and prayers, know that he would never let you down and the baby you are supposed to have you will have.  I'm 40 and 24 weeks 4 days,a I've been living with my boyfriend now husband for 12 years and he's always said that he didn't want children,  I have a son from a previous relationship he's 22years!! I'm saying all of this to let you know that your baby will come, keep your faith

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Wow,you have already gone through so much just to get to this place.  I'm also 36 & I had a miscarriage the last time I was pregnant several months ago.  I will be in my 8th week tomorrow & so far, so good.  I read your post and I wanted to send you all sorts of positive energy and prayers to support you right now.  You deserve it.
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