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This may seem dumb but i was diagnosed with adhd, bi polar, and anxiety sence 6th grade i been on medication for my disorders im 35 weeks pregnant so whrn i found out of course i was taken off meds and this pregnacy been hell emotionaly i have full time job n my boyfriend is amazing an helped so much of course my doctor says u cant be sure but im scared my child will be cursed with the same disorders im jus scared cuz if he does struggle how do i help him when i cant help myself i go to therapy take meds and stuggle everyday with emotional disorders an im recovering addict jus kinda wondering is it possible to be a good parent when i feel i have so many issues i see so many horrible moms jus wanna no any advice on things to not be lik them i feel i do so much jus keep myself sane throwing i kid in the mix scares the hell out of me
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1907180 tn?1329450777
I know lots of moms that have different disorders (bipolar, anxiety, OCD, etc....) and they are amazing moms. Since you know that you have this conditions, and are working on them, it shows that you are able to take responsibility for them and work thru them. That is truly ha.f of the battle. Lots of people can't even admit that there is something wrong.
Continue the therapy and doing the best that you can do. Use those supports out there when you need them. You can be an amazing mom.  One of my best friends mom is bipolar and she was a single mom and she did an amazing job raising her daughter on her own.  You can do it!!!
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1346146 tn?1299360497
Im not really sure about the bipolar and anxiety but adhd does run in families according to my sons pedi.  My husband and son both have adhd but my other son and daughter do not.  So its possible your baby may not have it.  I wouldn't stress about it, babies sense that.  Its good you have a support system.  Im not much help but I wish you the best and good luck.
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