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I swear I can't stand and I hate my boyfriend/bd he's so damn childish he got mad because I don't wanna rub his bruises on his hand so he gets mad and say he would never do nothing for me again all because of that he childish and petty and then he hits me I'm 5 months pregnant I'm so mad and sad I need me another friend I swear to god this is it my Lil girl won't go through this at all he's sick and selfish
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Abuse is very serious. It will continue to get worse the longer you stay and it is not good for the baby. I grew up with an alcoholic abuser dad and mom mom finally left when I was 2 after staying with him for six years and four kids.  What finally made her leave was that he broke my sisters nose trying to throw something at my mom and missed. He did the same thing to his next girl friend and was in jail once a month almost for the abuse. Leave and no matter how much he claims to be sorry and shows regret dont go back, the abuse will come back and it will be worse each time. leave and find a safe place for you and baby. If you have marks from it report ot to police so that he will have priors if ot ever happens again.
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Hope u leave this guy and not just talking about leaving. what a punk. Goodluck.
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I think you're really brave and intelligent to leave him. It's not right for you but you'll also show your daughter that she shouldn't put up with an abusive (emotional or physical) boyfriend when she's older. If she sees you putting up with it, she'll think it's normal. Well done! You'll find someone who will treat you the way you should when the time comes. Good luck!
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You cant put up with that! Having a shout is one thing but raising his hand, pregnant or not is seriously wrong. I hope your ok.
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