Martikadragon is right on with her response. I'm sorry it's making you feel badly. Try doing something nice just for you. I'm sure you look absolutely beautiful..most pregnant women do even if they don't feel that way. Take care.
each time a woman gets pregnant her body is more primed to change. That means that after the 2nd or 3rd baby you will get much bigger much faster because your body is used to it at that point.
Welcome to my world! I've always been overweight (180lbs) but I never had a stomach...most people can't tell be I have enormous boobs ;)...after I had my first child to doctor told me uterus was back to it normal size at my six week appt...I was confused....I was like what about my stomach...its never been the same since...I'm on baby#3 (last one) so I hope I can my stomach then... Good luck to you!