help?

[marinecrk]

I am a 17 year old girl. I recently just had sex with my fiance and everything was normal but the second time hurt really really bad. About an hour after I started bleeding. Now everything seems sort of swolen. What is this mean? I always get my 6 month obgyn checkups and everything is normal but this just recently started. Please help?

[melimeli]

hmmmm teacher and then dr... sooo how have you managed that in your ummm I don{t kow 40 at best years... go to college for a teaching degree then teach a while then go back to school for god knows how long and become a dr.  and now your are a dr?  Wow and you still get on here to ask medical question about IVF... hard to believe that you or one of your dr. colleges can´t answer those for you... or hmmmm  that you  come on a forum with people who are patients to ask them what you should do... or think that is a little wierd DR....

[Roxxyy]

I am a doctor for the same reason  if you dont feel you can give a medical advice to a medical question like the one she had leave this to somebody with experience.I was also a teacher and now I am a doctor and sometimes its  better to listen, and to give somebody a forum to express themself when they cant talk to their parents without being judged. Advice??? sure why not.. but good ones. Advice that she can use to become a better person and to make her grow. I dont think we should worry anymore, I think the girl got scared and will never write back.. I am very sorry for that.  

[vsentz]

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i know quite a few ones that are close to 30......

[40smama]

i'm an old lady on this forum - in fact older than most of you here and I have three daughters - two who made the mistake of having sex in high school.  I would never call them sluts - just human beings who made mistakes.  I would want them to come to me if anything happened to them (i.e. the symptoms of the o.p.).  Maybe the op felt like she couldn't go to her own mother and turned to older women who are old enough to be her mom to get advice.  I'm not defending her decision to have sex - far from it but it's really rude to automatically classify a girl who has sex in high school as a ****.  I didn't have sex in high school but believe me there are lots of girls who are doing so & to deny that fact would be insane.

[Brown Eyed Gurl]

well slap me silly and call me a **** because it's a proven fact over 60% of high school girls have sex.....now I'm not saying it was right but I was one who lost my virginity at the tender age of 15 yeah 15....I'm sorry you all don't appreciate younger people coming to you older ladies for advice and well I guess I'm not welcome either.  The fact is wrong or right that's what society is saying is ok.....do I believe it no I think it's wrong too and I wish I'd have waited.  But I didn't and I don't think it's right for everyone to ambush a poor girl coming to you older ladies for advice......she's scared and figured she could probably get some support.....instead she got called a **** and stupid and all of other mean things....I'm really ashamed of some of the women on here.  And that's just my opinion!!!

[Brown Eyed Gurl]

I'm feeling pretty good and awaiting my next appt Monday so I can get out of the high risk category  Thank God.....I wasn't getting upset thinking you all were talking about my situation but I was just wanting everyone to not be so hard on the poor girl.  SHe might have a good head on her shoulders and was just saying they were engaged and they don't plan on getting married for a few years.....just felt like everyone was ganging up on the poor girl.  But no I don't think anyone is ready to be a mother or wife at 17.