someone opinion on this???

[kkay18]

I'm 19 a FTM and I'm 31almost 32 weeks...and I've moved recently to Texas from North Carolina because of a family emergency and will be having my baby girl here...my baby father still stay in North Carolina and really really want to be here for his daughter birth... its 18+ hours away...and the best way we found was the mega bus its only $32 one way and he has to get a hotel room when he gets here so he to want to spend too much just to get here...the problem is we don't know if I'm going to go full term or go in early or c section or go past due...so I don't know when he could come...

[jjolfert]

Yeah your doctor would know best. If you don't have gestational diabetes and haven't had high blood pressure, fast weight gain, or protein in your urine (risks for preeclampsia) you will likely deliver around or after your due date. I was 25 with my first and I went 40+6. You can ask your doctor about a scheduled induction or c section if you really want but I recommend just going naturally if you can. If he came for 2-4 days before your due date that might be the best bet.

[kkay18]

Thank you...I hope so too..

[CourtHunt]

That's a tuff one cuz u do never know. Your best bet is to discuss with your doctor cuz she/he would know beat when u would most likely go.cuz it could be anywhere from 2weeks b4 edd to 2 weeks after. Good luck tho hope he makes it there