I wouldnt be cool with it its time for the family to bond plus do u really want another female in ur house for that long when u n ur hubby arent intimate.. 6 wks wait remember... Not a good idea... No offense to ur friend or hubby but lets be wise u will be overly entertained with baby... To pay attention to ur hubby then to add more needed attention of a guest...not wise.
Haha! I didnt know babies werent suppose to be in big crowds due to the low immunity, it makes total sense and I definately dont want a colicy baby! Shes a close friend but not that close! Thanks for the info and advice. :)
I could handle.someone coming that long if it was a close friend or family member but they'd have to entertain themselves Haha. I definitely would not take my baby out to the lake and wouldn't be able.to walk around a huge mall.like that because you'll be so.worn out still ESP.with being a new mom and.learning everything and babies don't need to be in huge crowded places like that cause their immune system isn't strong enough AND being in a big crowd can cause colic and you'd hate your friend forever lol trust me I still hate.my ex husband's aunt.for taking my oldest put in the wind.after I repeatedly asked her not to, went to the bathroom came back and she didn't even have him.covered and it was still cool outside! I'd just ask her to wait a bit or explain you can't go places like that OR tell you that you're sure you'd still be in exhaustion mode and don't want her to be bored. You know? Make it all about her and her comfort and baby's comfort of course and if she still insists just say no lol kinda like drugs! Haha
thanks, that makes me feel better! Lol I think im just going to explain to her why she shouldnt come. Plus we may be in the middle of moving so it would make it worse!
It doesn't sound unreasonable at all. Plus all the discomfort you might have after birth. I do not blame you one bit. I haven't been in this situation but I would just tell her up front and ask if she can wait or something. She should understand.
I couldn't and wouldn't handle someone coming for that long at my house with my new baby! I understand where you're coming from. I wouldn't my baby in a mall for several hours. See if you can cut her visiting time into less then half that!!