you should never be embarassed about going to the doctor if it is an infection it can cause your cervix to swell and you water to break early...it could be ghonorrea, e coli infection, allergy to sperm, irritation from soaps, etc...you need to call your doctor and be seen asap.
thank you I plan to i have a hospital appointment on tues morn but hoped to maybe get some idea of what it might be before i go :(
I'd suggest going to the dr asap, I'm not sure what it is as I haven't had anything like it, but if it's an infection it should be treated.