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2baby daddys need to vent a Lil

Feel like this relationship ain't gonNaw Last to long, things going sour quick....I'm pregnant with twins n this my second#2 baby daddy..I have 3other children from a previous relationship..I'm 26 year old with now soon to b 5kids n 2baby daddys...if this don't Work out I feel like everyone gonna start judging n saying all kinds of things this is just stressful!
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Thank you I will keep all this in mind mind for sure!!
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5761111 tn?1373906251
I know its gonna be hard but its not impossible. Get ur kids on a schedule and urself aswell and it will be 10000 more timea easier. I was taking care of my kids and my sisters 3 kids for a while since she was in a coma. I was single and had no one to help out but the kids and trust me the schedule works. Go out side take a deep breath and make ur experience a good one with out having to count him in its hard and sad but again not impossible. Good luck :)
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Thanks all these comments helped me out alot I no better than to Lety plp get to me its just scary thinking of being a single mom of 5Lil ones that only depend on me... :( I always wanted to have a nice pregnancy experience but I don't think I'm gonna have the chance to. :(
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5761111 tn?1373906251
Who cares if they judge is best for u to leave then to be unhappy and make ur childre. Unhappy. I have three baby daddys but I can say I finally found a man that will treat me like I deserve to be treated.
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13167 tn?1327194124
I agree with the others - what is important here is that you do the best you can for your kids.

Because people will judge you - and worse,  they will judge your children.   It's important that you raise them to believe in themselves,  and believe that they are every bit as capable as other kids,  and that they are every bit as smart and instill in them the desire to do well in school for themselves.

What is important is your children,  and focusing your life and efforts on them.  If this relationship doesn't work out and you don't have the support/help from either of the fathers,  you just have to work harder to give your children what every child deserves - a fair shot at a happy life.
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Oops!! Phone mess-up. Some people probably will judge you, because people judge for every reason.. but no one who loves you will think any different of you. The opinions of other people will be irrelevant, the only thing that matters is how you view yourself. You'll be a great mom and your children will have strong bonds with each other & that's amazing!
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Spmeople probably will judge you,
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Your absolutely rite thanks for sharing this :)
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No one will judge u. Its hard relationships and babys put a strain on things n sumtimes its hard to make things work. This is my third pregnancy and all my children have different daddys sumthin im not proud of but i have my children n love them so much so i dont care wen people judge because no matter what i do whats best by my children including being a single parent if it means the children bein happier than the parents being in an unhappy relationship
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