31 weeks

[ambsss]

Babydaddy just got tooken in to jail yesterday , baby shower is august.23rd . So nervous hoping hes gunna be out by then :( and for my babygirls delivery ... Uhggg

[mommylady1]

OK I'm late responding I c ..  Such b*tches..However everyone has already been set straight  putting the focus on the real issue at hand... I hope all goes well for your baby .. I have been going threw alot and I didn't understand at first but I am finally able to start to visualize my blessing.. Never give up and know that your blessing is coming.. Keep posting because some women were destined to be on this site to lend a helping hand in a time of need... Some women stick together and help each other out and some need prayer Cuz can't nothing on this earth help them.  Hope all goes well for u

[Maleka87]

I hope they delete this thread. This is a hot mess.

[ambsss]

Good for you then , lol i dont understand how wanting the father of my child present for the events is so horrible ? Like i said IRRELEVANT . . Your no one to judge anyone , no ones perfect even when you make the right choices or try to something always comes up.

[heavenlyhash]

Maybe you guys should read the comments after... I have no problem with someone going to jail at all... But this dude was already on probation and got sent right back to jail... If you can't keep your butt out of jail what is that? Oh wait a lowlife.... How can a man in jail support you exactly? And you hope he is out? If it was an accident and he shouldn't be in there wouldn't he be out? You do the crime you do the time... All I was saying is I've been there done that dated the bad boys... Hell even got kids with them.... But they are so stuck on stupid MOST of them don't care to change.... And no even a baby won't change nothing.... Why would you want to show your child their father in and out of jail... This is what she said! Not me... So why wouldnt you try and get the very best for your child... I married a wonderful man that has never been in jail and supports my family... Is he a pain in the butt... Hell yea he is.... They all are.   But you and your daughter deserve the best... But go ahead settle!! Not my life.... I grew up and opened my damn eyes!! You don't want to be judged? Make the best choices!!

[ambsss]

Yeah I understand ! Just at the moment I had to get it out you know ? First time going through that and was hoping one of you had went through the situation before so I know how to handle it . But now I know its the wrong place to do it ,lol Thank you ! And good luck to you aswell

[mag131]

These comments make my day lol. People post anything on a public forum the minute you tell them the truth they want to jump your throat for being rude. Ladies carry on. I have been reported to the board before now I have to be careful.

[ross1112]

And good luck to u and ur family

[ross1112]

@ambss honestly, I don't have anything against people goin to jail, sometimes they make mistakes and those are the consequences and for me, that doesn't make them a low life, the problem is, that u posted it here, and again, even if is something small, it sounded like it was something big, and again, if u posted something like that here, prepare to all the comments specially the ones that u don't like

[MoeJaramillo]

Good luck hope he gets out soon...

[ambsss]

@2ndtime_mum Of course not , people will talk ... its life I wasnt even focusing on the negative comments . Thanks love Same for you :) !

[3rdtime_mum]

Good luck to you too ambass! Im glad your not letting the ignorance get to you. I hope all goes well with the rest of your pregnancy.

[ambsss]

First of all my babygirl is my top priority , I was just saying hopefully he'd be out soon to share those beautiful moments with him . I dont understand how that makes this post so bad ? Lol or make him a lowlife . BUT like you guys said thats your "opinion" ! & once again thanks to the respectful LADIES on here & congrats on your pregnancy ! :) the arguing is irrelevant

[ross1112]

Mommie_to_beauties I know which one you're talking about lol, that one made me very sad

[melcarin]

Idk if I should laugh at some comments feel bad at some or keep my mouth shut at some... and I thought the 18-24group was bad....

[IluOpt]

"People don't want to hear the truth because they don't want their illusions destroyed"

- Nietzsche

[JustALady239]

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Did this ALL just happen!?!?!?!... Best of luck to you, really!!!

[mommy_to_beauties]

Ohh_baby and iluOpt I agree with you totally... and I agree with all others when they say this is a SUPPORT FORUM however I also agree that some things should be kept to yourself... I do laugh to myself at some of the questions on here sometimes cause I just don't understand how people can be that stupid... from talking about how their husbands molest children and do we think they should forgive them to can the baby come out my butt.... and I get told to grow up.... wow

[IluOpt]

Consequences... consequences.

So you can make bad choices but we can't tell you about your bad choices... Hahahaha!

Childlish pregnant women!

[ladynel]

Keep your head up ambsss, trust in God to give you peace during this sad time you're going through. Keep in mind that troubles don't last always. Sending prayers and love for you and your unborn baby girl.

[Ohh_Baby]

*word

[Ohh_Baby]

#1 the work " tooken/tookin " used by not obe but at the least 2 adults  is friggin hilarious. I must be in the 15-19 year old forum
#2  mommy_to_beauty is right we are all being judge , just as we as we all judge others. Don't tell your business if you dont want to recieve the good & the bad

Lastly, I understand that we share alot w/ each other, there are some things we should keep to ourselves. I.e. Arrest records, drug abuse during pregnancy, even child molesting husbands I'VE READ IT ALL on this forum * I think thats why my messy behind is always snooping around here * yall make my day! Lol

[Tammy_marie]

Why does everyone have to be so mean! :( I hope your man gets out of jail before your princess is born and I hope that you don't stress out to much.. All the best xx

[Bridget8705]

@2ndtime_mum,
Ok... I hear ya.  I was a bit harsh and I apologize for that. However, being frustrated with this post and the concern for the wellbeing of the arrival of this little one, my bluntness was expressed.  
I just felt the concern of the man who was sent to jail was higher than the concern of the little girl and I was irritated.  I'm gonna send good vibes that way though and hope everything works out and that the little one will become the top priority in all of this!

[3rdtime_mum]

* minus the added in it. I dont want to sound uneducated lol