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9932559 tn?1411058964

boyfriend doesn't make me happy

I know from myself that if I didn't fund out I was pregnant,  I'd be leaving my current boyfried. We can't even talk to each other. I can't go one day without telling myself I should leave him.... there are good qualities tho
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If you are unhappy talk too him and try too explain why and but just because your pregnant doesn't mean you have too stay with someone .. With my first son I thought that and I also was scared that I'd be alone .. BUT I'm glad I left I have a wonderful hubby and step daughter now and I'm pregnant with my 2nd boy and I'm so happy ... If your miserable in a relationship it puts so much strain on your body and in the relationship itself ...
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I felt similar with mine as well.. I ended up marrying him when our son turned 2.. I don't think we both did it for the right reasons cause we still have more downs then ups.. If you could leave him then do it,maybe you can work on each other from a far if it even could work.. You should never feel miserable in a relationship.. Good luck with everything.
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A child is no reason to stay with someone. If he can be a good father then you should leave and Co parent. either way you do it it will take it of.work.
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I completely agree with alid.  just because your pregnant you don't have to with him and feel,stuck. Y'all can be good parents being togther or not.nobody is worth your taking your happiness.that comes from with in :) alot of this world will try to break you down and strip you from who you are. But they can't your inner self from you or your happiness!  oh God Im preaching lmfao
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9440890 tn?1415878121
If you are that unhappy don't stay just because you're pregnant.  Having a baby isn't going to make it better.  You can both effectively take care of a baby even if you're not a couple. Good luck
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