Changes of due date driving me crazy! help pls

[nana070710]

When i first found out i was pregnant was at Er with a sonogram where they gave me a due date of feb 2. My periods are very irregular so they went by the sonogram at that time. When i went to the ob/gyn they told me feb 5... than later at the same practice but different dr told me feb 10. Now i had to change drs a couple months ago and he told me jan 29 based on my sonogram. Now yesterday nurse told me feb 10. Now i had a sonogram 4 weeks ago were they told me that i was due on jan 29 ! But that eventhough i was 33 weeks on that sonogram my baby measures two weeks ahead.... please help! What would you girls do? I know sonograms are not 100 accurate and its an stimate but i am freaking out since my aunt went throught the same and went my cousin was born she was born dead!! They let her pass her due date!!!!

[nana070710]

@Aprilbabe26 i deff agree i need one due date only :(
@shohna thats what im gonna due when i see him again next week and thats a great idea! I dont know if they do stress test but i am going to ask since i am concern
@eeve yes im going to think for feb 2

[Eevee_moon]

you need to stick to one dr.. I feel like that's why they keep changing them because of the sonogram babies grow at different rates.. id use the first one of feb 2

[Shohna]

Im in the uk..not sure where u are..and i have irregular periods..i had a scan at 6+6 and oneat 12+6..they differed by 4 days..but they said the12 week one was most accurate..and thats the date on everything now regardless of how the baby measures..id deffo speak to the dr n say i want one due date..and explain ur concerns..if they let u go over cud u ask for stress tests etc to keep an eye on the baby?

[AprilBabe26]

You poor thing that's a pretty long time between dates too you'd think they could narrow it down better than that. I would definitely tell them about your aunt & be clear that you aren't comfortable with all this back & forth nonsense-you need a more definite time! Mine went from April 3rd to the 13th, then she measured a little ahead so she's @ the 9th but they've left it @ the 13th & said babies come when they want! So we're going with it since she's on target growth wise.  

[nana070710]

Ugh thank you for the advice. Its not even the rush of having the baby althought my feet and hands are very Swollen and cant sleep i just want whats best for him and i am so terrified with the due date changes ! I am not very familiar with getting induced deffenitely something im going to ask my Dr.

[Skyseyes]

Ya that would be horrible to be messed with like that...not even sure how many weeks you are. I would ask my dr to set an induction date in the first week of February. But that's me...good luck and keep us posted.

[lurooney]

And be stern about it,its not fair on you them messing around like that with your dates

[lurooney]

That would be seriously annoying being constantly told different dates..if i was you i would tell your doctor your concerns and about what happened with aunt and tell them you want them to make a final decision on your due date and

[liasmommy08]

I would be scared to just set up a date to get induced  around maybe the last week of January  going into February that way you'll know you're okay

[nana070710]

Im very scared and when i asked the dr two weeks ago he said my due date was jan 29 and now yesterday being told by the nurse feb 10 has me really worried. I dont mind the wait im just scared because of my aunt ...