Dont know wat to do...

[HopeMarie3]

I just went in my room to lay down cause im sleepy nd so i walk in nd my sister is in there smoking nd she said she would go downstairs to finish but i decide i would cause its to late now the smoke is in the air nd i hate to keep breathing it in..btw i had a friend ask me wen the baby comes are my mom, dad nd sister going to stop smoking (mom nd dad smokes cigarettes nd sister smokes black n milds) but then today my boyfriend asked me the same question nd i told them both i have no idea so he wants me to ask them or either wen i deliever nd is leaving the hospital if i can get a ride nd bring the baby to his place...wat to do?

[HopeMarie3]

Thanks ladies for ur advice...this is really bothering me but i will bring up the situation tomorrow

[canadiana]

I have never smoked, and I have asthma from second hand smoke when I was a child. My friend had behavioral issues as a child that ended up being from nicotine addiction (when he was at home he was fine, but at school he was going through withdrawal). When I was little they didn't fully understand the effects of second hand smoke, but it's becoming clearer now. I would urge them to quit, or to smoke outside, or you could try moving in with your boyfriend.

[ohthejoy]

Find a smoke free place if you can! I work in a respiratory ward and see so many people come through with awful lung conditions that they got from 2nd hand smoke... At least if it was their choice they can deal with the consequences, but to suffer because of a partner or family members choice is just not fair!

[HopeMarie3]

My sister just moved bak in with us cause her nd her ex broke up nd watever else nd she couldnt no longer pay rent nd my mom caught her nd told her to stop smoking or to go outside but she still does it...but i will talk to my mom nd dad about wat they plan to do about this whole situation cause my parents nd myself want to continue to stay here

[elvendork]

they should quit for their own health!
asking them to not smoke in the house is entirely reasonable- especially not in your room. that is just f***ing rude

I think you need to talk to them about it now, their smoking in the house is putting your baby's health at risk everyday

,y husband did well quitting 3 years ago switching to a electronic cigarette

[ftm502]

You should take your baby to the safest place. If your family isnt willing to stop smoking and you have other options use them. Second hand smoke is awful and bad for your baby.

[mommylece]

If I were you I'd stay at your bfs 2nd hand smoke is the worst! So awful for your baby too!