Vent

[muneca34]

So ladies I sent my 14 yr old to my older sisters house Cuz he wanted to spend some time with his cousins. She after the first day is talking about how she needs a vacay because she took him and her sin to two different places... ooooh. She doesn't work and she is not the most stable person emotionally which is why I limit his time there. To make a long story short I said I didn't want swimming in a lake because its murky, dirty and so many drownings have occurred because Apple think the lifeguards truly watch all the kids. Not to mention the several kinds that have contracted and passed due to the parasites found in lakes. Well she took that and turned it into me going overboard protective and saying that I don't trust her etc etc. Then went on to say that I am too strict with my son and added a bunch of intentionally mean and hurtful things that had nothing to do with the situation. I am 13 wks pregnant and her daughter told my son that we will forget him once the new baby's born. I told her to mins her own and atop overstepping her boundaries turning my one comment about the lake into something like this. Drama then she brings my mom and younger sister into it  say that they have said the same things about me and her husband too etc etc.
Completely trying g to put me down for who I am, putting words in my mouth and putting my son in the middle of it. Needless to say he's coming home tonight. Now she said that since its not her business she is cutting ties with me. I have no problem with that except that my son is going to suffer and blame me for it.

[muneca34]

I concur.

[BearHunterMomma27]

Just explain to him why. He is 14 he should understand.

[Amy1830]

Jeez. Why is your sister turning such a silly thing into a huge argument?! Not that it's even silly. I wouldn't want my son catching parasites either. You're his mom you're allowed to set rules about what he's allowed to do. Sounds like your sister is either jealous or was just waiting for any little thing to use against you and flip out on you!