Feeling bad ;(

[Latamaulipas]

So tomorrow hopefully me n my hubby will find out what we're having and since me n him have known I'm pregnant my side of my family has known n just his brother n the only sister that I get along with but I feel bad cuz I wanted to invite just some of his family that get along with me and that like me cuz he has two sisters that have never liked me and has judge me since day one but he says that I shouldn't invite none of his family and just a baby shower with my just my family what should I do..Cuz I know wen I have our baby his family that gets along with me is gonna ask why I didn't tell them u know ..

[mandab123]

This is my 2 cents only. If they make u feel bad and are mean then u don't need that in ur life. However, maybe u could be the bigger person and invite them. Maybe ur husband would secretly appreciate u making an effort. It doesn't necessarily fall on u since they r in the wrong but maybe if u make that first step they may respond with a much better attitude towards u. If u don't invite them u ONLY give them more ammo to be douche bags. Just invite them and be as nice as u can. As an invitation to start fresh with them before ur baby arrives. Tell them u want all the family to be a big part of baby's life and ur husband needs it. If they continue to be that way with u just be done. But hopefully they will see how nice u r and how much ur husband means to u and how much u want the baby to know them. Also if they are ugly I'm sure ur hubs will not stand for it. They will force him to choose and u and baby will be the only ppl he will choose. Good luck momma

[susamor]

Why not just say it was a surprise to you and your family organized your babyshower.. And if they really want to be in your babyshower maybe they should offer to make you one and then his side of the family can go to that one. If not don't worry about it. And news flash to his family, the baby will be half mexican so they better get over that quick! From one mexican to another ;)

[Latamaulipas]

His two older sister's don't like me cuz they think am I not pretty enough for him and cuz I'm Mexicana ..They think he can do better than me ...

[Latamaulipas]

His two older sister's don't like me cuz they think am I not pretty enough for him and cuz I'm Mexicana ..They think he can do better than me ...

[Crystal0814]

If his side of the family is drama then I wouldn't invite them. But if they don't like you over a misunderstanding then I'd talk to them and see if you guys can work it out. I'm sure your husband would love their support if everyone got along.