Feeling blue

[EbonyEyez1]

So,  today is my birthday. I'm at work because my fiance has nothing planned. He's still ignoring me. He answers and calls me when he feels like it.  I'm starting to feel like I should break off the engagement and do this alone.  I get tired of repeating myself to him. Any ideas on something I can do alone to lift my spirits?? I'm all ears.  

[Angelina19900]

Happy bday :) spoil your self and shop for baby keeps your mind busy but also cheers you up.

[EbonyEyez1]

All of you ladies gave me great advice.  And I took heed to every single word. I had a beautiful relaxing birthday with my mom. It took my mind off alot.

[giraffe1020]

Ask some friends to go out to dinner. Great way to take your mind off things

[mrs_palomo08]

Yesterday was my birthday and i also spent it at work. My husband didn't get me anything because he claims he's gonna have a dinner party for me Saturday. He better have something planned or I'll be really pissed. Happy birthday and try and enjoy your day. U should run a warm bubble bath and relax without thinking about him!

[Courtneyx0]

Pamper yourself and have some ice cream! :-) Happy Birthday!

[cherish12103]

Lots of junk food, baby shopping, rent a movie, and order in!! That would be my perfect solo birthday!! Hope it gets better, and happy birthday ;-)

[DirectGirl]

I'm not a big shopper, so if I were you I would... (1) eat dinner at a sushi bar because you don't have to sit alone at a table and you can watch the sushi chef (only order cooked food), (2) head to the mall and pick up some Godiva chocolate truffles, and (3) get a mani/pedi. Hopefully they will let you change the channel on the TV so you can watch whatever you want. It's your birthday!  Worry about fiance another day.

[Shaunray]

Happy birthday hun! Medi&Pedi or baby shopping hope yur day gets better god bless :-)

[Huni_b]

Happy birthday to yooouuu *sing*

I agree with the above ladies, pamper yourself with a mani-pedi and then visit a baby store all dolled up  !!

wishing you a very happy birthday and many more years of happiness, love and good health.
- from a fellow lioness  :-)

[lexus3232]

Go get a pedicure and buy something for after u hv baby or sandals treat urself to some gd food and deserts happy bday :)

[3babyboyz]

Happy birthday mine was yesterday. I hope u enjoy yourself on ur birthday we all need to pamper ourself once in a while i did some gambling yesterday idk if they have casinos where u live but if u do try it, it doesn't hurt.

[EbonyEyez1]

Ok. Sounds good. I'll try the ecards too. Thank u so much ladies.  I appreciate all the ideas and kind words.

[EbonyEyez1]

Thank u. A day of pampering doesnt sound too bad either.

[alexandria227]

Happy Birthday!!! I love all of the ideas of pampering yourself and going to the baby store.  Some times when I need a pick me up I look up funny quotes on the ecards. You may pee yourself but you'll get a great laugh!!!

[EbonyEyez1]

That sundae sounds wonderful. Thank u so much.

[EbonyEyez1]

Thank u. He sure will. And the sad thing is he wanted to get our family started more than me. Oh well. Happy belated birthday doll.  Us Lioness were built strong.  It hurts, but I know I will be ok.  Thank u again.

[mommybrandyozuna]

Nails and toes and maybe a hair wash! Pamper ur self! And happy cake day!

[Mrs_Goni]

I like the idea of going to a baby store that will always make you feel better. Maybe when you get done doing that if it was me I would go get that one thing that you are dying to eat even if it's a sundae as big as your head. Hope you lift your spirits soon & HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!

[EgyptianGoddess]

Sorry to hear that....Happy Birthday mine was Yesterday ^_^ treat yourself us women really do need it...if he doesnt want to show you attention do it alone he'll realize he missed out -_-

[EbonyEyez1]

Thank u so much. That sounds like a great idea. Thanks for the advice. I'm going to make the best out of this.  

[kyles36]

Oh and happy birthday hun :-)

[kyles36]

Go to a baby store... I'm going through a nasty break up and I have found when I'm really upset and stressed if I start looking and planning for bubba it really cheers me up and take my mind of the crap and onto something beautiful and positive!
I'm sorry your partner is being a jerk.. Sounds like you may be better off doing it on your own.