Feeling unloved! Vent

[MiniMiss12]

Hey ladies, I am currently 26 weeks pregnant, for a bout the past 7 weeks since I have really started to show, my partner has not wanted to make love with me. This is our second child, while I was pregnant before we weren't as intimate as when I'm not pregnant but it was more than now. He says it's because he is paranoid that the baby will get hurt, but I know he knows it's safe. He has been watching porn and looking up pics of naked women! It really hurts my feelings to know he is pleasing himself thinking about f###ing these 'skinny perfect bodied women!' I know it's because he doesn't find me attractive now I have a baby bump, and it really hurts to feel unattractive to my partner. He is'nt the skinniest guy and has gone up and down in weight many times in our years together, and it has never changed my feelings towards him. It just makes me so mad because it's a baby I'm not fat, God forbid I ever gain weight while not pregnant! Any one else feeling unattractive, unloved and unwanted?

[MiniMiss12]

A$$hole is the missing word! Also he said the last time I was pregnant I "forced" him to have sex with me! Thats why we did it more often! What a crock!! I don't know what to do.. I'm sexually frustrated, cranky and upset all the time :(

[MiniMiss12]

It's a horrible feeling. I tryed talking to him and letting him know how I feel and I get told "You are making me feel like an *******. I feel paranoid about it." I think if 2 people are inlove they make love right? I need some loving lol

[aishj84]

Im wif u totally , im in the same boat! Execpt the porn , thanks god I dnt hve that prob (it probably wouldn't do anything for my hubby at the moment anyway)! Thats how bad it is its like hes lost all interest totally,  and I certainly don't feel attractive to him even though he says I am and nothing is wrong hes just tiered I feel like its me:-(