Venting about husband's behavior

[odduk]

Am I the only one who's husbands started being a complete awhile? He does something gross like fart on something of mine, I tell him it's gross and some how I'm being a birch. He is actually mad at me for nothing. Two days ago I spilled water on the floor and he totality actresses I ruined the new couch. The water was on the floor not the couch and it was water not juice or something. Then when I went into the other room and started crying he  got more  asked me why I was crying and though I did raise my voice when I answered because you are over reacting about spilled water his response was outrages. He grabs his keys and left for four hours. I know because went to his buddy's house I'm not worried about his faithfulness, but his behavior is hurting me and he just doesn't seem to realize how he is acting, or how it makes me feel. Is it just him or does pregnancy make men crazy?

[aimeeaiman]

Start ignoring him, and he will come around.. that's how I got my husbands attention...

[TA283]

Personally (and I'll admit I'm not good at communicating to begin with) I would leave for a while ie a weekend maybe a little longer. I don't take attitude in general and especially not when pregnant. I would tell him he can be an *** to himself all he wants and when he's ready to act like an adult he can let me know to come home. No yelling, no arguing, no negotiations.

[carthon]

It also could be that he is nervous and fearful of the changes that are about to come. Some men have a hard time expressing themselves instead they just act like complete jerks. I agree with singermomtobe that sitting down and tell him how your feeling and maybe you can get down to the root of the problem.

[singermomtobe]

Men don't get it. My ex used to tell me I was "out of control" when I was speaking calmly to him. He never considered that being pregnant was a real condition. Sit down and talk to him in a few days and explain how he's making you feel. Use statements like "I feel" this way when you do this. Try not to get emotional unless you cant help it...you are pregnant. Lol. If that doesn't work, put your foot down and tell him he's not the pregnant one and he has no right to treat you the way he is. I hope things get better for you. I'm all alone this year, and pregnant, and its terribly hard. Good luck!

[odduk]

Wow the auto correct on my phone is horrible

[odduk]

Wow the auto correct on my phone is horrible