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[kathy811517]

Please help me resolve this confusion that is in my own mind and bothering me alot. I would like to just enjoy my pregnancy and move on live a happy life with my kids. I had a mulitple partner incident i know it was a mistake and i do regret what i did.

My LMP (as far i can remember) : Jun 21st 2013
Guy 1 incident: Jun 30th 2013
Guy 2nd Incident: July 3rd and July 5th
Found out i was pregnant July 19th.
Ultra Sound done: Aug 08th 2013
Ultra Sound dated me at excatly 6 weeks. The tech was open to my questions and was aware of my issue and concerns. We calculated together plus and mis 3 days and nothing was reaching any where near the Jun30th date or even the Max living capicty of the sperm to July 4th to have me concive in first week of July.
I was still not staisfied with the accuracy of the first Ultra Sound, i had another Ultra Sound done Aug 09th with the same Gestional Age in Six weeks.
Due date given to me was April 3rd 2013 plus minus 3 days.
I can only think of minus the days because there is no way i got pregant after the 2nd week of July that seems unlikly because i ddint have intercourse after the 5th and i found out i was pregnant on the dot July 19th when i expected my period. I noticed my first implantion bleeding to be July 15th.
The calenders, the calculators, nothing goes back to June 30th day of conception for my pregnancy.
I am sure i have answered my own questions and worrying way to much, i have consulted my Dr and Ultra Sound techs and just for more knowledge and feed back would like to rest my mind in peace and have a blessfull pregnancy and forgot my sin and move on and live a happy life with my family.
Please all the knowledgable people out there help me out and help my life be free with this worry

Tags: concieve, Ovulate

[whit78]

If it helps my lmp was june 26 and I know for sure that i conceived on july 7 or 8 (honeymoon baby). The due date given to me was April 3. Hope this is helpful

[kathy811517]

Thank you! I am going crazy all over the world of Google and researching any thing i can thing off. Nothing really falls to the conception of this day even to the Max 5 days of sperm life. The Ultra Sound Tech said logicaly and sciencetifcally just doesnt seem realistic because the sperms from Jun 30th wudnt have motility to fertilize.
But i think i am going to end this confusion that i didnt get pregnant from the mistake i made and hoping God will forgive me for my sins and move on forward with a better future for my family. And i did do 2 ultra sounds to confirm this gestional Age. Both were early april. and if the baby was 4 weeks plus the two weeks before June 30th doesnt fall in the map. thank god i had a 1 week to play with becuase if not i wud have totally regretting and wouldnt know what to do.

[JennieMelee]

You can get pregnant 30mins to 5 days after intercourse.

[shastas84]

Hope that is the news you were hoping for. Because the math just doesn't work for the June conception.

[kathy811517]

i had 2 ultra sounds dating about the same +- 3 days in 6 weeks and early April Due Date.
so even if i go back 7 days not go any where close to Jun 30th Conception.

[kathy811517]

yea Dr did say i didnt concvie around the 28th besides i didnt have intercourse to concvie for that date.

[baby2014]

If it takes just one sperm and one egg to create a baby, why must men make so many sperm? And how many sperm are considered normal? How long do sperm live? Can they survive outside the body? Do men stop making sperm as they age? Is there anything you can do to increase sperm production or improve the health of your sperm?

WebMD takes a look at the facts about sperm and answers these and other frequently asked questions.

How long do sperm live?

The answer depends on a number of factors, the most important of which is where the sperm are located. On a dry surface, such as clothing or bedding, sperm are dead by the time the semen has dried. In water, such as a warm bath or hot tub, sperm will likely live longer because they thrive in warm, wet environments; however, the chances sperm in a tub of water will find their way inside a female bather and cause her to become pregnant are extremely low.Inside a woman's body, sperm can live for up to five days depending on the conditions. If you have unprotected sex even a few days before your partner ovulates, there is a chance of achieving a pregnancy. 

[baby2014]

Sometimes sperm can live up to six days so If you did have sex on the 5th it is possible to have gotten pregnant with that sperm.

[gypsybear]

Your not gonna know till you get a dna test because it could be either, they're saying your 6 weeks but then that would mean your lmp should have been the 28 th which would mean you concieved around the 11th unless they are saying you concieved around the 28th which then it would have to be the guy from the 30th. So I don't think you will know untill you get a dna test

[shastas84]

It's most likely that you are measuring slightly smaller. My babies all measure small in the beginning.

[kathy811517]

So because of the due date I get conception july 11th n I last had intercourse july 5th how is it possibel to get pregnant 6 days after wards?

[melissa724]

I agree with Shastas. June 30th doesn't seem likely. July 5th would be most likely your conceived date.

[Flickan]

The early ultrasounds tend to be the most accurate.  

[shastas84]

It's highly unlikely to be from June 30. You're last period was the 21. You ovulate roughly 2 weeks after that. And sperm, on average only survive 24-48 hours. So it's a really tiny chance. The first week of July would be the highest possibility. Hope this helps. :)