Heart broken

[Staryn]

I'm 29wks 4days and just split up with my fience he got verbally abusive as I became more and more pregnant and kicked me in my lower back I left but feel so lost and hurt I'm really afraid to do this alone

[babyblessing88]

You made the right choice! You're already a great mama to this baby just by making the couragious choice to leave an abusive situation. This is best for you and your child now and in the long run.  I am 15 weeks pregnant and I am doing this without the father's support. I'm blessed to have an amazing family and friends by my side, but I do wish sometimes that I had that special man by my side.  Even through my lonely moments I know that I'm doing what is best for my child and I find strength in that. I pray that you find the same!

[glittzprincess]

Very proud of u I did go through same thing and took me years to leave and two kids later its hard and Some times ull be sad but at the end of the day u will be safe and so much happier. Focus on ur baby and itself. Good luck momma sending my prayers to you

[emmamommyof2]

Wow what a jerk......u definitely don't need that specially around you're baby. You did the right thing. By the way it's going to be his lost.

[R4ch4el88]

That is disgusting of him you don't  need someone like him, you will find someone else who will appreciate you for you and treat you how you deserve to be treated, you will be ok stay strong n if he goes bear you call the police

[mandy4_1]

Aww no way I know u feel shite now but seriously how can someone whos supposed to love you kick u while carrying the gift of life he cud of really hurt u. I really hope u r both ok :)

[aruth]

I agree that you did the right thing. It will be hard, I raised my first child alone. Make sure to utilize ALL the services available to you, that definitely helps! I hope you have some family or friends near you just for that support, if not then definitely make sure to call them when you need someone to talk to. I agree with sprmom87 too, counseling may be good, especially with how much you have been through. Good luck momma, your in my prayers!

[sprmom87]

Leaving is hard and so is raising a child, but there is tons of assistance out there for you, and I found that counseling was a great help as well. I wish you the best!

[KaysensMommyx052514]

You did the right thing, so proud of you mama!

[Staryn]

Thank you all I needed to hear all of that thanks for your support  this wasn't the first time but it's gonna be the last I'm so stressed and scared I almost lost my baby

[Farah_Remo]

Dont be afraid to do it "alone". Its better than being with someone abusive who will most likely be abusive with your baby as well. So many women do it alone and nothing is wrong with that. Good luck

[kaylanoelle_xo]

Don't ever be afraid of going through it alone. You did the hardest and bravest thing thing you could for yourself and your precious gift and that was to leave. I was in a very abusive relationship with my first child and with this one the father disappeared so trust me you can do it!  The best of luck =)

[swalesy123]

You did the right thing! And dont give him another chance coz once he done it for sure he will do it again and again so dont be sad ..

[nicnac1225]

I went through violence in my 2nd pregnancy it was horrid I chose to stay but I should warn you the services will get involved if your baby is around violence.  Youve made the right choice. Thinkin ov u xxx

[imanelena]

Dont be sad. You will have a child it means u will never be lonely in your life. Everything will be ok .just believe.

[Lizzie_Campos]

You did the right thing. You'll do better without him. There's no excuse for him kicking a pregnant woman no matter how mad he was. And trust me it won't get any better once he's reached that point. Good luck and keep positive.

[3babyboyz]

That's good u left cuz u don't need that done to u n who knows he could b abusive to ur child n ur child don't need to b surround that yea i know its hard but im sure u can do it on ur own ur gonna b a tough monma good luck!