how do i get over the hurt

[julieannjeanes]

Im 25 weeks pg and my bf left me a month ago. I had to move in with my sister and i have two other small children. He wont talk to me and didnt even tell me why he left. Ive been hurt like this too many times and u would think i would get5 used to it but i havent.

[shaebug]

Thanks all i really needed to hear this maybe no tears tonite

[mrselmore1206]

Well said. I have 2 children from a previous relationship and he lefr me during labor. Hes been in and out of my kids life and has not seen them in almost 4 yrs! I recently got married and my kids think of him as their dad and let me tell u, its a hard road but not impossible.  Keep ur head up he's not worth ur time nor ur energy

[Cborrego]

I am 37 weeks 4 days & dilated to 6 cm already. Just found out a week ago that my husband has been living with his new gf for 2 months now. He was supposedly away due to work but finding this out has crushed me, especially since his first born son will be here any day now. I was sick to my stomach & saddened by this but in the last few days, I've realized he's just not someone worth my time. Thankfully, I've had a friend that I've known for years (use to date many yrs ago) help me through all this pain & suffering. I'll cry on his shoulder, he'll take me out to a long drive & tell me positive things about myself. He's been a great support to me so I've askef him to be in the delivery room with me & he said yes.....that is a true friend! I recommend hanging out with people who are not going to judge you, be there through it all with you & still make you feel beautiful in & out. It will be hard to move forward but good luck to us!

[Flickan]

Amen MattyDaddy. Well said. Ladies, we deserve better then to be treated like dirt. Love your children and when the time is right, you will find a partner. Don't just want someone to have someone, or to help with the kids. It's not easy but we can do it. Have a support staff available and believe in yourself and stay strong.

[k1026]

Your a momma and he ditched. Focus on ur kids. Hes not worth ur time.

[MattyDaddy]

Ladies, first please allow me to apologize for the sorry examples of my gender. The last thing you need to worry about is something like this. If these *expletives withheld* don't have what it takes to be there now, then ask yourself if they are really worth helping you to raise this child. The words 'cope' and 'change' are pilar opposites. Instead of trying to cope with the situation you have been thrust into, change your mindset knowing that you CAN do this. Din't worry about replacing them. If Mr. Right does come along then he won't have to be forced, guilted, or otherwise coerced into being by your side. You deserve that. Not an easy thing but you have the strength to do it.

[julieannjeanes]

I'm sorry you are going through the same thing. I wish I could let go. I pray for him to realize that he should be here with me and our baby. I try to think someone else can replace him but then I think y would anyone want to. I'm pg and I have 2 other children. I need to be strong for my children. Its just so hard.

[shaebug]

Im in the same situation as u and find it harder to let go i think because im pregnant and all these diff hormones goin threw my body but i have been prayin everyday to remove him from my heart and each day its gettin better jus stay prayed up and in da end he will regret the day he hurt you!