miserable an depressed

[rae_20]

I always feel miserable.  Like I'm not happy. I feel fat an overweight, not pretty, I feel like I dnt have a life. I don't know what wrong with me. I feel bad cause my bf wants to make me Happy but I'm not. I'm 25+4weeks an I'm ready for my bby girl to be here. I feel like she's the only thing that will make me Happy right now.

[joamb]

I feel the same way very emotional and sad. Not Everyday but some days I feel so lonely and unloved. My husband has been really supportive and still says I'm beautiful and sexy. I'm a first time mom so I feel nervous now that I'm in my third trimester and everything I'm going through is new for me. Also pregnancy has made my vagina very dry so being intimate hurts and doesn't feel good and that makes matters worse. You are not alone in this and I'm hoping it's just hormones and it will pass

[meg8927]

Better* lol not beer*

[meg8927]

I feel the same way. I feel huge and unattractive, having sex is not appealing at all and I am having mood swings like crazy just being grumpy all the time. Can't fit any clothes and with christmas and 2 kids right now no money for any either. And my husband only works till 3:30 but I'm so grumpy he stays outside with the dogs or in our room watching cartoons with our daughter. We hardly talk. But what always makes me feel beer is laying in bed feeling my baby kick then remembering in over half way there and sanity is sure to come.....hopefully lol good luck hun ur not alone.

[michellemarie1919]

I have been feeling the same way, but not only sad, I get mad easily too and for no reason. I also hate the way I look in clothes. I'll spend hours trying to find something that at least looks ok to me. What I found that helps is, stay busy. Clean bc you're not going to be able to as much when the baby comes. Put up xmas stuff. Go places. Just try to keep your mind off of being miserable and/or pregnant. Also, doing my hair and makeup helped me feel better about myself too. Hope some of this helps! Good luck and hang in there! It'll be over before you know it

[LittleManCub]

I don't really feel depressed,but some days I do feel like a blimp abd not very pretty in my clothes...you know what cheered me up? Looking at pregnant fashions on pinterest. So many lovely mommy-to-be's shining and showing off that belly in cute outfits! It inspired me and I made a few wardrobe changes so I didn't feel so bad about having my belly. I'm 26 weeks,by the way. My boyfriend constantly tells me I look beautiful and NOT fat, which helps...but I know we are all our biggest critics so pics of other pregnant women really made me feel pretty, too!

[janarams2004]

I am very depressed too and feel extremely alone. I just keep telling myself it's the hormones. One day at a time

[rae_20]

Thank you doing much. Can't wait til I don't feel like this anymore

[Firstxmom]

It's so crazy how something so wonderful can make you feel so aweful. You're not the only one who is feeling this way. I went through, I don't even know what. I cried like I lost a parent or sibling for 2 days straight. I just felt unhappy for no apparent reason. And I knew there was no reason to be upset. I just was feeling overly upset and emotional. I was throwing up cause I was just so upset. I spoke to my mom about it and she was able to calm me down and said she went through her emotional up and downs too. I'm now 34 weeks and finally feel pregnant and not so much fat. I have more days now that I feel pretty so keep your head up, I promise it's just a phase.