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Hit By Car

So I'm 24 weeks and yesterday I was riding my bicycle to work like I do everyday and a guy in a minivan wasn't paying attention and hit me...I flew about 4 feet with my bike and ended up with his van pinning me and my bike to the ground...He had to back it up so I could move.  I was tAken to the emergency room via ambulance...They found that my blood mixed with baby blood which meant there was internal bleeding.  My handlebar smashed me right in my belly and I hAve a Mark and it's swollen.  They kept me overnight due to the possible chance of my placenta detaching which then I would need a c section asap to save his life.  I have never been so scared in my life. That was the longest 24 hours ever and I'm still not in the clear...now I'm high risk and have to be extra careful.  And the kicker is this guy could care less...He was super cocky and nonchalant about the whole situation. He simply told everyone he wasn't paying attention and didn't see me.  
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9414151 tn?1406839268
OMG!!!!!!! Im so sorry u have to go through this. I almost cried reading this n some people dont care but carma is comming his way soon i will b praying for u n bb for a speedy recovery!best of luck!
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Omg! That is so scary! I can only imagine what you went/are going through, definitely try to go after his insurance company, people nee to learn to pay attention! He could have killed both of you. Press charges, sue, the whole nine yards, I'm happy your doing good and hope you and your baby have a complete recovery. Blessings!
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8529755 tn?1412629642
I'm reading your story and seriously I'm pissed. He put two lives in danger and he's acting like he doesn't care.  WHAT? That's beyond crazy and scary. You and your baby are in my prayers every night. Wishing you full recovery!! Please keep us posted!
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Thank you everyone!! Your support means a lot! <3
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So saddened to hear :( I pray for a speedy recovery for you n the little one. Please take it easy and rest. Wishing u all the best mama!!!
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9440890 tn?1415878121
Oh my goodness,  that must have been terrifying! Prayers and we'll wishes to you and your baby!
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10037378 tn?1420563810
Oh no that's so scary hope you and you're baby OK prayers sent
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8765505 tn?1399764936
Was this in Dublin Ireland? ?

How awful - that guys an idiot and I hope karma bites him hard! :(

I hope everything is ok and you and baby are safe. Rest up and try your best to relax :(

Oh I just wanna hug you! ! :(
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Glad you are ok... praying the rest of your pregnancy stays healthy.
What a jerk of a guy... he should have been on his knees helping tog, sitting at the hospital etc. Some People have no moral conscience  anymore. I hope he gets a rude awakening by your letter. Take care mama of you and your little baby!!!!
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I pray your baby will be just fine inside that belly in Gods name.

Did that dude at least say sorry, because if he didn't he will get it in life. He will give an explanation to God one day.

God bless!
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I am so sorry... that us scary they should put that guy in jail or at the very least take away his drivers license even if you and baby are ok. The next pregnant lady he hits might not have it so easy and by easy I mean they may die on sight. So far you have been very lucky that you and baby are ok for now and like you said that's just for now. I hope they don't let him just walk away, that makes me scared for my baby. I hope you and baby do well, good luck...
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10426661 tn?1410354439
Omg...praying for you....he needs to go to jail...highly upset for you right now. Im sorry
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OMFG i hope everything goes well and every test turns out 100% for your lil man and you mama. :(  I would call a lawyer asap if I were you and talk to him about all of this and I would take the cocky guy to court he could have seriously hurt you and the baby and until your in the clear there's always that chance ... I hope everything is fine though
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Omg you take it easy. You did the right thing by getting a lawyer. Good luck with everything
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Thanks ladies. I figured you would all understand considering were all mommy's.  Honestly this man was lucky there were police there because my boyfriend was scared to death and pissed...And was freaking out ...I talked to a lawyer today briefly. And the funny part is my lawyer is preggo too so she's fired up about it...us mommy's stick together
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I'm really sorry to hear this, glad your doing well giving the circumstances. I'm not a sue happy person but I would sat you should file a suite with His insurance for your medical.bills (if any) pain and suffering for you and your baby, and compensation for now being high risk.
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8899539 tn?1409614490
Wow am so sorry this is awful, I really hope all turns out good for you and baby.  By the time you are ready to sue this jerk he won't be so nonchalant.
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10417801 tn?1409982912
He'll get his... praying protection over u and baby!!! Speedy recovery!!!
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Omg!!!! I am very emotional reading this!!!!!!!! I want to say first off, I am very sorry to hear about what happened and I am concerned about your baby!! I am hoping with such passion that you and your baby are safe and well!! I most certainly hope your baby stays strong and survives!!! I will have you in my prayers!!!! Secondly, what a coward of a man!!! How very inconsiderate!!! I would personally look into possibly pressing charges, regardless if it was an accident!! But you need to rest, so maybe that's not an option right now!!!! My heart goes out to you and your baby!!! Keep us updated!!
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7763771 tn?1510501652
Some people are heartless. I hope you and baby get cleared asap. Best of luck.
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8101930 tn?1420001456
Omg that's crazy!  I hope you and baby are Ok! :/
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