Hormones?

[tinatheturtle]

So I live with my boyfriend and his family and I usually get along with everyone but today I just can't stand them. Earlier i was arguing with his sister about ham....{My boyfriend bought it the night before because that's all he eats when he gets home from work(12am). }She hates to cook for herself so she eats all the sandwichs, by the time my babe comes home he has nothing to eat and I'm the one he gets upset with.
My ? Is.. Am I over reacting over sandwiches because of my hormones?!
lol I just want to have some left over for my babe

[tinatheturtle]

We do have a snack container but a mini fridge is some thing we need to invest in..ASAP!

As for your situation ibelieve that it isnt fair they live for free and get their cell paid.

We recently started giving his mom money for our water bill and she went and used it to buy fathers day gifts. So now we must pay a fee, i was furious but I cant say anything cause im not the one bringing in the $$

[mammatanz]

I am in kind of the same situation right now. My husband, daughter, and I live with my husbands parents, his sister and her fiancee. We had to move in with the four of them when our landlord decided to ask us to leave after three years so that his daughter would have a place to stay.So there's a total of seven people living here, plus I'm pregnant. It gets kind of tough to keep all of my emotions in check around them, it has gotten worse with the hormones. My S-I-L  and her fiancee seem to not jave any boundaries when it comes to food and many other things. They do not go shopping and replace those things, and they tend to take advantage of anything that they can get. They have my in-laws paying their cell phone bill, they do not contribute to the utilities, and claim that they do not have any money deapite both of them having full time jobs, and planning a wedding. I have had to say things on occasion because of it, but I feel liken it is not my place to say something. My in laws should be putting their foot down, but don't. It really irritates me and my husband,like we would go shopping and get things for meals and stuff and the next day its gone, and its not just our food, its the snacks and things I buy for our daughter. It has gotten so bad that we have started keeping our snacks and drinks in our room, and we are even considering buying a mini fridge to keep some cold stuff. I do not think its anyway to live, but it has stopped us from arguing.But we are looking to buy a house before the baby comes, so we have decided to just keep our mouths shut in the mean time unless something really needs to be said. Its a delicate situation. I would suggest doing what we do. If you buy it keep it in your room. I know that its a little passive aggressive, but it is saving us from some arguments, I hope this helps a little.

[14yearslater]

I think the only way to solve this is to buy a refrigerator a little on from Walmart or even Craigslist and keep it in your room. She can't get to it then

[emommyof3]

If u have the room buy a mini fridge for ur room to keep his food in. I know how u feel because my husband is always inviting his nieces and lil sister over and they eat all my snack and drink my soda which makes me so mad because they won't eat the snack I buy for the kids they always eat mine then when im craving something its gone.

[tinatheturtle]

She's 17 and is in that punk attitude "IDGAF" stage I wish she would understand that everything isn't about her and leave his food alone..
She wants to get a job and leave but her mother is over protective and she doesn't wanna walk or take the bus...-_- teenagers!

[cnj76]

How old is his sister?

It's not fair to him that they are eating up all of the food he's buying, either.
I know the feeling though. I lived with my husband and his family for a while. Including our two boys.. Altogether, there was 13 people under one roof... It was ROUGH.

[tinatheturtle]

Thanks..and I tried that and she ends up finding it or she'll complain saying I'm hiding food and its not fair to everyone else.
He's already had a talk with his mother about it but his sister doesn't care.

[cnj76]

He needs to direct it over to his sister.. Not you. Especially, if he's buying it for him to eat when he gets home. His sister needs to learn to eat some pb&j every once and a while lol


You could always put some up for him hidden somewhere in the fridge..