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How can i climax?

Hi everyone. I have a question and I hope I am not to bold for some of you. My husband and I love sexually pleasing each other, but lately its been uncomfortable for me because the only position that I could climax is when my husband is on top. My husband loves to do it doggie style but there is no orgasism for me. Please help and what can i do?
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Me and my husband were very active....i would have like 2-3 orgasms a night...now im 7 months and its hard to even have one orgasm the only way is by him stimulating my clitoris....give it try and im sure it would help you
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7552771 tn?1469929649
I personally can't orgasm during sex but I very much enjoy it but I'll masturbate first while he talks dirty to me or rubs on me then we have sex. Or sometimes I do it during sex or even after. For some reason I can only clitorally orgasm.
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If he's good at oral, I'd say let him do that until u get off. Clitoral stimulation is probably gonna b ur best bet. Have fun lol
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Have the same problem but when I tell him to take care of me first he doesn't say anything makes feel pretty ****** :(. Idk it makes me feel like I smell down there or something I mean I don't.  Lol I always try to shower before sex anyways.  Idk what to do it's always great when we have sex but he just wins before I get to :/
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Ever since i got pregnant a vibrator is the only way I get an orgasm.
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8591317 tn?1410732068
I have the same problem. & even when he stimulates me with his hands before entering, it hurts & I get all swollen & lose the feeling to do anything anymore. Uh hormones. :-(
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7649008 tn?1408319523
I have this same problem, but we found a position that works ok but things have changed so much it just diesnt feel the same but when we do I get there, I lay on my left side and he is on his knees behind me, once he enters I put a pillow behond my butt and hips and rotate and he holds my legs its similar to missionary but you are slightly to your left, you have the pillow for support. Its the brst we can do but im 35+5 so the maim reason we have srx these days is tp stimulate labor by soften cervix, evem tho I so want it its just not as comfortable anymore,  lets just say once im healed its going down. Lol
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Sex is so weird lol, can't have an orgasm in missionary position (hubby on top) I'm 32 weeks and still crawl on top :) the key to orgasm is clitorial ststimulation, my husband is skilled with his fingers but a vibrator would probably help you out :)
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Have him please u first. And then switch it up.
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Can't he take care of you first and then switch it up to get himself there? Sorry if that's too forward, lol. That's just what we do.
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10064121 tn?1415176073
I bought a vibrator. It's amaziiiiing lol
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Good question. If you're comfortable with toys I'd use those to enhance the experience. Or to eat natural stimulating foods that might help complete the task lol.
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