Strip club..... am I wrong?

[Stephjhb]

Im 25w ftm, me and my partner hadn't been together long before I got caught pregnant but we have a happy healthy relationship BUT he is off out to a strip club at the weekend with friends and I have taken it quite badly, maybe because I heard how much 'fun'? He had last year or because im obv not feeling myself in my body right now, either way I don't like it and he has said he won't go but now his friends are going to think im being soft and stopping him having fun, also its a very seedy place compared to the more classier places and he's stupid when he has a drink with the lads,

Am I wrong? How would you feel?

[chelsgr87]

In my opinion if you both have never done anything to betray eachothers trust and he is being upfront about it then I would say no lap dances but go have a good time.  As long as there is no touching or one on one interaction what's the difference between strippers and the internet lol.

[nichole75315]

I feel you. My hubby dated strippers before me and I'm Soooo self conscious. I'll tell you what he told me.. those women are just toys lol. He opted to toss everything associated with that lifestyle understanding it hurt me. Don't feel guilty. :)

[crstl11]

Oh I agree...my hubby is not going out with his friends...he don't really have many but I told him he is not going to have fun since I'm pregnant. It doesn't bother him at all we do everything together anyways. But no ur not wrong at all cause that is not a place for a taken man.

[Stephjhb]

It is upsetting because I am pregnant and it is disrespectful when he knows im insecure about my body and weight right now and theres him off out wanting to pay nude thin attractive women go dance on him, plus his friends are rowdy and would egg him on to do something stupid like usual! Don't think I would be too bothered if I wasn't pregnant and could get dressed up looking a million dollars and go out
with friends myself that night but our daughter is more important! :/

[crstl11]

I would not care what his friends think....personally I told my hubby I don't care if he goes but only if I go to. No I'm not bi or lesbian but I had rather us go together than him go with other men.

[Flickan]

Honestly I think a man who is in a committed relationship has no business being in those places. It's disrespectful to you. Is be more than mad if I were you, it would be an ending point for me. But, you have to decide what you are willing to put up with in a relationship and what you are not. We all have our things we just won't put up with...you need to figure out if this is one of yours.