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support please ladies!? :'( :'( :'(
Its just too much to explain and words can't fukly describe the way I feel rite now! I already feel as if the whole world is against me and im just flat out not good enough! I just want to relax and enjoy every minute of my pregnancy and life ! Im looking for a friend to lean on or some sort of comfort and my husband and family r the last people I want to deal with rite now:'( please ladies if any of you have any kind words to share with me I would be grateful.. its easier when u have other people that can relate. I feel like im going into panic im so sad :'( plz help
Thanks ladies I cant stop crying :'( and my little one movr noe bv im stressed :'(
You will be just fine. It is hormones and your going to have mood swings. I have 3 girls from ages 3-5 and I will be having my fourth girl in 5 weeks. It is a lot of drama in my house. My husband travels so I am a full time momma. Family can be a pain at times. They need to understand. I always say men need to experience pregnancy at least once so they know how it feels to not be in control. Just hang in there.
Just kno ur not alone I cant wait for this to be over..
And I really feel awful bc he just took a week off next week for a bed and breakfast spa place jist for the 2 of us and I feel like I dont deserve it :'(
My husband is a wonderful man and we never have problems where we just stand eachother we always work things out. But ita like im already wayyyy tooo sensitive as it is and its so bad! I literally cry all day every day about stress and this and that. And today was jiat a crappy day and I felt my anxieties were really bad today and tonight when my husband comes home he brough some things to my attention.. and he usually tells me how he feels straight up and he is always very comforting when ive had days like this in my pregnancy.. but tonight its like all my stress took over him and he started saying things like we need a marriage counselor.! And I was soo hurt! He says we don't know how to communicate anymore. And this is coming from a man who has been with me for 7 years absolutely no problems ever in our marriage thatbhave been so bad we need counciling ya know? :'( it just scared me bc ya know im prego and my anxiety is bad rite now and my hormones r all effed up so I just started balling my eyes out :'( I couldn't understand it. And he feels awful now bc he was trying help but he saw how berzerk and scared it made me and he feels so awful bc he huet me that hes left the house in tears bc he can't stand to see me hurt. And the way his family has rejected me aince weve been married and weve been pregnant it has hurt me sooo bad and I felt like I wasnt good enoygh for him bc of how they were to me and it made him ao mad bc he loves me. I k ow he o ly tried to help me when im upset and feeling insecure about my body and juat myself in general now but I juat couldn't keep myself together when he suggested marriage counseling :'( idk it was juat weird bc I always thought that we were that couple ya know and it was perfect! ! I love my marriage! And I know he does too hes my soul mate and were adding a little member to our family.. I guess our communication has been bad since ive been my prego bc im so hormonal... and its hard for me I yell alot of cry. He tries to be strong for me but tonight it just wore on him :( and I feel so awful :'( he left the house crying bc he hurt my feelings and he drove off to give me space.. ladies I have no friends im so idosolated and alot of my stress stems from his ****** family which I dont even see anymore but it still stresses me out :'( what do I dooo to relax for my babys sake amd my husband
Sometimes family just *****. You need them more now than ever but just like my husband for example, he is not worth 2 sh*ts now. It will be o.k.. you will probably have to try and master the "I'm not hearing you right now" thing and go somewhere to chill. I mean after all everything is "your fault" (even though it isn't). All will pass. They say eat chocolate helps. Best wishes to ya.
Sometimes family just *****. You need them more now than ever but just like my husband for example, he is not worth 2 sh*ts now. It will be o.k.. you will probably have to try and master the "I'm not hearing you right now" thing and go somewhere to chill. I mean after all everything is "your fault" (even though it isn't). All will pass. They say eat chocolate helps. Best wishes to ya.
I live with my husband, two sons 7 and 3yrs, my dad and my grandparents..im 28wks and get so irritated with them sometimes I don't want to get out of bed but have to for my kids..just remember they love you and deep down you love them, sometimes really deep down lol but lean on God and realize it will pass
Girl i messaged you:)
I felt like that during my second pregnancy, I cried everyday I felt so alone even though I really wasn't. Just take every day one at a time find the small things in everyday to smile about. Think about your new baby and the joy it will bring you. I hope this helps., and if you need another reason to smile. Look down at your belly and say I'm a bad *** I'm making a baby .... you're a beautiful person and will be a great mother
I thought your hubby was being understanding! Is it a bc his family are jerks!!? Your not Alone momma.
Tell me about it! I can't tell them anything they say I over exaggerate. And to stop nagging :(
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